okay but actually, her personality is pretty ugly

Okay but actually no. The ones like the ML have ugly personalities. You know, victim blamers who push all the responsibility for the way OTHER people view and attack those who aren't conventionally attractive on the latter. Y'know those who have the gall to wonder why a victim is acting like a victim by doing more of the emotional labour when they themselves are the ones who just pushed all that responsibility onto them. They're called gaslighting and double whammy mk. Look them up and you'll figure out what's really 'ugly'. Gabdab.

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