Some thoughts

Cornmagician March 11, 2021 1:29 am

So I've seen some comments talking about how mijeong, while thinking that the world is against him, is actually kinda spoiled and although I understand that that might be the truth, I feel like it's only one side of the truth, which makes me want to sympathize with him and his feelings.
Looking at his relationship with his family members, even though they have a close relationship and obviously love each other, to me it seems that mijeong feels that he is not respected by the others, that he, his opinions and his experiences are constantly being undermined because they view him as immature and impulsive. Though, I can also understand where the family members are coming from (since he has definitely acted immaturely and on impulse many times), I can't help but feel like this response is extremely damaging to mijeong's self esteem, which probably gradually makes him hesitant to share his feelings and opinions with others in fear of getting shamed for them and only helps to further worsen his inferiority complex.
All in all, I believe that his family members do genuinely care about him and harm him without even knowing and that mijeong getting into a relationship with hangyul is going to do wonders for his social development and will help in undoing some of that harm caused by his family.


Now that that "novel" is over, I really want to see some cute development between the 2 leads and also between naseon and chorong so much. (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

Responses
    Gloomy March 11, 2021 3:23 am

    I get how he feels tho. Abt his parents not being there for him. They love him but r too busy to show him any love and as a kid. That hurts no matter how much u look at it.

    I relate even tho im an only child but everyone had time just never been there for me lol. When they dont show up at events ur trying ur best in too omg ouch

    Cornmagician March 11, 2021 10:08 am
    I get how he feels tho. Abt his parents not being there for him. They love him but r too busy to show him any love and as a kid. That hurts no matter how much u look at it.I relate even tho im an only child but... Gloomy

    Yeah I agree 100%. It can be extremely damaging to a child to get ignored by his family and to see their siblings being constantly prioritized over them.
    I personally am and have been pretty privileged about this situation since I'm the youngest of three (I used to get pretty much all the attention from my parents, not anymore of course since I'm not a child) so I can't really relate with him but I understand how he probably feels and I feel for him