Only if your opinion is in regard to my COMMENT, as opposed to me PERSONALLY. "I don't agree with anything you just said" is far preferable to "You have nothing of value to say."
Because as it is, your comment sounds like you only responded in order to pick a fight. And if that's the case, I think you should move on. :)
Lol now you're just putting words in my mouth. "I think you need to take a chill pill" does not equal to "you have nothing of value to say." In fact I support you sharing your opinion because everyone should have the entitlement to do so (without being asked for it). Nor does it equal to me picking a fight with you. I just thought you should take your zeal down a level. You and I both know that the author probably included that conversation of them saying they weren't going to adopt him simply for plot value and to explain why the auntie and uncle didn't just adopt him. And you don't have to oblige my request to take a chill pill by the way, because it was just an opinion :)
At this point, I'm just a troll aren't I? http://www.mangago.zone/home/photo/11833946/
Being told to take a chill pill is an abrasive type of advice. If you want an example of someone picking a fight there is an insult that I found out about on Reddit that was a person’s favorite insult: Spherical idiot. It was their favorite insult because it means no matter how you look at it that person is stupid. However another person in the comments said to call someone a sphere, take it back and say “you can’t be a sphere because there is no such thing as an ideal version of yourself out there.”
However, if you are someone who is always true to yourself, aren't you closer to your ideal self than anyone else in the world? I don't need someone else to tell me that I'm "not ideal," because if they're going to "insult" me to my face, then I don't have to care about their thoughts...because their ideal does not equal my ideal.
Anyway, out of curiosity, why are all you people eating popcorn and keeping this thread alive when there's literally nothing here? Just a person commenting on my state of mind when they neither know me, my thoughts, nor my feelings upon posting a comment regarding something that was actually pretty messed up about this manga...which, oddly enough, a lot of people do? About various series on this site? ( ̄∇ ̄")
At precisely which point did I claim you told me that I have nothing of value to say? (⊙…⊙ ) I only gave you an example of two methods of discussion. I will rephrase.
Suppose I make an observation in a comment, as before. One possible dialogue option is, "I hear you, but disagree." another is, "I hear you, and I agree." another is, "I hear you, but you don't need to say it." another is, "I hear you, but there are better ways to phrase it."
I will allow you to decide which option among these, or among many others that I did not write, is the closest to what you meant.
However, my point is, which one between "I disagree with you" and "You have nothing of value to say" sounds like an opening for discussion? Both can be taken negatively, as in the case of "You need to take a chill pill," which I am sure you only said out of the kindness of your heart, after thoroughly considering my feelings, and I apologize for biting your head off over your unsought advice. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~
I will say that I thought it funny to be told to "take a chill pill" after having read a bedtime story (this manga), left my impressions (this thread), and then immediately going to bed (while sadly shaking my head at the less-than-ideal adults who are still a marked improvement when compared to several other examples I can think of in manga, period). I fully expected not to receive any comments whatsoever, so waking up the next day to read your response was quite mystifying, as I'm sure you can imagine. However, what I took exception to was not your words themselves, but your assumptions regarding my state of mind. Frankly, you were in no position to judge.
I'm not saying that they should have adopted Aki, but actually TELLING HIM that they were thinking about adopting him and DECIDED NOT TO because they didn't want him to be embarrassed by their small business??? What is their PROBLEM!?
It's fine that they didn't want to adopt him, for physical, emotional or financial reasons. It's okay for them not to want kids. But you don't tell a neglected child that you're looking out for them by not giving them a warm, loving home. YOU KEEP THAT BULL TO YOURSELF. You do NOT tell the KID that they are not worth adopting, ESPECIALLY when that kid is NOT ACTUALLY IN AN ORPHANAGE.
Guess what, aunt and uncle? That kid you didn't want to "burden" with your family business? WENT INTO DEBT TO SAVE IT. You didn't do a damned thing but enforce his belief that no one will ever want him. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧