Okay 1. Completely agree about Hana and 2. I understand I got the hint with her mom too but I believe although I have sympathy for her she has no right to dictate someone else’s life based on your own because you have vastly different experiences and personalities how is she gonna know that she’s gonna regret something when she doesn’t feel regretful for being true to herself if she ends up the same way as her mom she’ll finally understand her mom but otherwise until that day comes instead of issuing the strategy of hitting she would be better off just saying it’s gonna be tough being lesbian, are you sure you want this for yourself and leave it at that don’t even tell her of your own past just the question and if she said she’s prepared trust her and see where it takes her
agreed
I felt sorry for the mom, I know i am just assuming things for now, but i've seen some spoilers that kinda proves my hunch that the mom also liked girls before :(( and when she said that she's familiar with all the hardships she's gonna go through if she would go to that same path that. shit.hurted. i want to hug her and say sorry for what she might've gone through, but the world's different now...it's more accepting and forgiving...
also on the side note, that kind of stuff is so familiar, parents who're part of the lgbt community somehow ends up being the ones who are homophobic towards their kids :/ I mean, it is gonna be difficult and not a lot of people will treat them kindly but i just kinda wish they'll support them because they know exactly how that feels...
and for Hana, jeez her jealousy is getting out of hand. It sucks that no one's paying attention to her because she tends to be this 'responsible' and 'can handle everything that is thrown at her' kind of person but still needs the same attention as everyone, but outing her brother like that isn't fair! and now she wants him to "cure" his feelings like being gay is a disease?? totally awful. I am so pissed off.