as a fudanshi i think it's only fetish-y when you read/watch yaoi and ONLY yaoi, in which case that wouldn't be normal and just weird as hell. being mlm myself it's uncomfortable hearing straight girls tell me that they get off to about gay porn for the sole reason of it being gay when the amount of straight porn and media made for them is literally incomparable. idk just my opinion
well, i’ve stumbled upon this question too on twitter before, a girl/woman once asked a gayporn acc on twitter via curiouscat (the owner of the gay porn acc is a gay dude) but the difference was that she jacked off to gay porn, and she said it’s not that she can’t jack off to straight porn or lesbian porn or anything, it’s just that sometimes girls in porn are really off putting (with their exaggerated moans and stuff) because girls can fake moan but dudes can’t fake their boner. and i 100% agreed and relate to her a lot. it’s not about fetishizing sometimes though.. i think it’s just preferences really.
yeah exactly!! thats exactly how i feel. or not. idk if its a fetish or preferences honestly. i cant tell the difference between them most of the time. i don't watch real life porn nor do i get off on them. i only read them yaknow what i mean? and its not that i cant get off on straight manga smut. i can actually since im still just a girl who luvs bl but.... gay smut just hits diff. lmao i take this so srsly
that's not what i meant. i meant girls who read and watch gay porn BECAUSE it's gay and they love to see two men going at it because they're gay.. not mainly because they're attracted to male bodies, but just because it's gay. i've come upon annoying girls who ship solely mlm relationships but never straight or wlw ones. it just sounds quite fetishy though needless to say it's ok if you read/watch for the plot or just plainly attracted to male bodies . do u get what im saying
ok so like im a fujoshi and i masturbate too but i get off on yaoi smt or gay smut. mostly on fanfic smut of my ships. sometimes on yaoi and I've been doing it since i've discovered i luv yaoi and i thought it was normal but so far in all the years I've been a fujoshi, i haven't read a single comment or post ab a fujoshi getting off on bl..(´。_。`)
so like,, Im wondering... am i normal (in terms of fujoshi rules) or not ಠ_ಠ
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