Help me cuz I'm strugglin

angry.cl0uds March 6, 2021 3:50 am

So my mom was like approach this boi that I like right but idk how. Should I be like "hi my name is___" or should I be straight to the point like "what's your name" and then be like my name is. But more than anything how do I get his attention to ask him this

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    鍾嘉欣 March 6, 2021 3:53 am

    give more context.

    AllForGayTings March 6, 2021 3:55 am

    Be bold be like what’s your name and then start causal conversation find his interest and then make convo about that and I’m pretty sure he will open up and then start talking about it as well boom YALL friends

    ddd March 6, 2021 4:16 am

    Try to make it be coincidental or natural
    Yup with context I can tell you how but like there are so many ways depending on tbe situation

    angry.cl0uds March 6, 2021 4:44 am
    give more context. 鍾嘉欣

    So I have spoken to this guy a smol amount of times but he seems nice so I told my mom and long story short I’m trying figure out how to approach him so we can become friends, is that better sorry if I’m not explaining it well...

    angry.cl0uds March 6, 2021 4:45 am
    Try to make it be coincidental or naturalYup with context I can tell you how but like there are so many ways depending on tbe situation ddd

    I just want to become his friend since I think he nice and cool but I’m not good at approaching people anyways so I wanted to try the approach first:)

    angry.cl0uds March 6, 2021 4:46 am
    Be bold be like what’s your name and then start causal conversation find his interest and then make convo about that and I’m pretty sure he will open up and then start talking about it as well boom YALL fri... AllForGayTings

    Oooh that’s a good idea, why didn’t I think of that

    ddd March 6, 2021 4:58 am
    I just want to become his friend since I think he nice and cool but I’m not good at approaching people anyways so I wanted to try the approach first:) angry.cl0uds

    Alright
    Juts pretend you are trying to do the same thing he is doing and just be like hey is this.....
    I like it too.... Etc

    Or like start by asking them a question,,, then be like thank you,, and ask them for their name, and then just chat a bit about something related to the question and go off topic if u can,, and just start saying hi when you see them around and eventually you are gonna have a conversation u know
    And then friend them on social media and start texting (friend them right after you asked the question incident,, and start texting when you started having conversation,, a good way to start with texting is alos to ask question,, or just congratulating them ons oemhting or praising them)

    And yup

    ikigai March 6, 2021 7:54 am

    How do you know him? Do you share the same classes, are in the same club, sports, etc? It’s easier to talk to someone one on one If you have something in common. It also eases the pressure by a lot to just casually bring up shared stuff instead of having to introduce yourself and not knowing what to say next. You could just make a comment like “wow the last homework sure was hard huh” or “I really like __ aspect of this hobby” or something along those lines. Just casual things that will make it easy to have a good interaction. Best of luck to you on your crush! It’s going to go great ^^