yes, i agree with you the uke is indeed selfish XD
i think this is the arc where he'll start to realize the seme's worth and be more aware of his feelings. plus start to depend on the seme too since they haven't seen each other in years, he may see him in a different light and more as an adult. character growth if i may say. ヾ(☆▽☆)
I mean yeah i get the whole not wanting to chain him down when he’s young thing, but why not telling him now? The uke is just hurting himself and the child in the future. Everyone takes trauma differently and everything, but still he’s not excepting the fact that Taeyoon really loves and wants to be with him. It’s been like that since they met lmao
yeah i thought about that too, like why not just get together since it's obvious the seme's still smitten with the uke?, then i thought, yeah they've been apart for years and wouldn't really know what goes on in the other's mind. i have anxiety too so i know that it impacts your choices in an illogical manner, that to others may seem so obvious. that's why i think the author is leaning the story more on the character growth as their twist in the story
Yeah I have anxiety as well and I major in phycology. Neither of them really have the “aspects” of severe or even mild anxiety. They’re both like bottom of the line normal people with normal lives (for a manwha). The uke is just being persistent really for no reason, bc like earlier, it’s obvious the seme cares for him.
is it just me? cause yeah as selfish as the uke may be, he's got his reasons for keeping the baby.
one, he didn't want to be alone, finding something to live for after losing everything is a big deal as unreasonable as it may seem.
and two, the seme at the time of conception was still a student so he can't really chain the seme to him.
insecurities and anxiety are feelings that are hard to explain and illogical at times too. i think the author is going for the whole character growth with the uke here for his happily ever after.
one tend to be biased at times if you only see one person's point of view.