Why not asked to be protected by Hide? Why does it have to be kenga?
BTW, i haven't read the story yet. I based my comment to other comments
I'm just asking
why should she tho? for her hide is a stranger, she at least knows kenga, can trust him. that iswhy she asks him, someone she is already familiar with instead of a complete stranger.
just so that u can understand it better, if you were getting abused by your boyfriend and you wanted to come out of this relationship, but were to be too scared, but were to see your ex-partner, who is strong and you already know and trust, wouldnt you feel better to open up to him about the abuse instead of a stranger you dont even know if they would really help?
and this has nothing to do with jealousy or anything like that. because hide actually wanted to help the girl, but kenga didnt want to help her and gave her the fault for the abuse which is just completely bullshit! kenganis just a bad person that victim-blames.
I just finished reading this.
But to be honest, the words kenga said were true, if you were in a relationship especially married, why would you go on dates? The mere fact that he is an ex, why would she cling to kenga as if they were familiar? They broke up 10years ago.
And Hide was a close friend to begin with, and sympathetic at the same time. She should have hugged him too, like how he hugged her EX. and her hugging her EX is a red flag for me if I were her partner.
There will be no smoke if there's no fire, her dating and getting chummy with a co.worker is a red flag. I'm not saying that physical abuse is right, but she knew the cause yet she still is chummy to other people especially opposite sex.
Kenga was right when he said that if she can't take it anymore, then get help, he doesn't need to be sympathetic or talk sweetly cause it may lead to a misunderstanding (like her thinking kenga still has feelings for her and that Hide might get hurt too)
but if your view of relationship is open and that men should understand that they can't control their wife if they have male friends, then it's on you too. I'm not saying you're wrong though. I myself don't want to be controlled too, but I'll try respect my partner by not getting chummy with a friend and going on dates behind his back. They're lack of communication is the problem.
P.s. Why would she even expect Kenga to help her?
sighhh
the author really thought she did something with that insensitive talk in chapter 11 and the victim blaming.
that girl is getting abused!!
and its totally normal for her to hug her ex boyfriend who shes already familiar with and knows who wont abuse her. she isnt acting over-familiar or is flirting, shes literally asking to be protected and seeks help!! even if she were to cheat, abuse is never okay?? is the author out of their mind??
and whats the matter with the misunderstandings?? now people in relationships cant even have friends of the other gender and go eat with them?? in what century are we living again??
and that some female readers are still defending this shit talk because of their insecurities or because thats how their family has teached them... babygirl you are a victim.