Hyesung needs time to recover and has every right to be sad. but what he did to byul was k...

kimisama March 5, 2021 5:46 am

Hyesung needs time to recover and has every right to be sad. but what he did to byul was kinda brutal. I mean he can be sad but that doesn't mean he can ignore byul altogether.

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    Meri19 March 5, 2021 5:51 am

    Parents can take a day off too?????? They don’t need to take care of their kids 365 days of the year, Dojin, Heesoo or anyone else could take care of the baby for a f afternoon while Hye gets to cry in peace, i see you all have no babies in the family and think parents are always 100% to them and never get a rest, or that they never get sad, Hyesung has every right to take a day off from taking care of the baby

    Justcallme March 5, 2021 5:53 am

    I agree! I feel sad for Byul

    kimisama March 5, 2021 6:01 am
    Parents can take a day off too?????? They don’t need to take care of their kids 365 days of the year, Dojin, Heesoo or anyone else could take care of the baby for a f afternoon while Hye gets to cry in peace,... Meri19

    yeah. but instead of turning his back on byul and making him devastated he could have explained that he needed to be alone or something that wouldn't make the situation worse. I don't think parents should be there 365 days. but their actions will affect their kid's mental state. and ignoring your kid when they're crying for you.. that's just wrong.

    dazaikinnie March 5, 2021 6:02 am

    i agree with you, but hyesung is his own person too. that must've been too overwhelming for him. i don't think he was trying to ignore byul. it's more of like he just needs some time to think and process about what happened.

    I'm handsome March 5, 2021 6:09 am
    yeah. but instead of turning his back on byul and making him devastated he could have explained that he needed to be alone or something that wouldn't make the situation worse. I don't think parents should be th... kimisama

    Dude, byul only 2 years old. Look at hyesung said "sorry" to byul. Kids at least know the word "sorry" and i agree with Meri19. Dojin and Heesoo was there to give time for him to be alone. Mommy had a hard time

    Moemoekyun March 5, 2021 6:15 am
    yeah. but instead of turning his back on byul and making him devastated he could have explained that he needed to be alone or something that wouldn't make the situation worse. I don't think parents should be th... kimisama

    Hye-sung said "I'm sorry" for not being able to play with him.Dojin and haesoo are the ones you should be getting angry at if you really want somone to be angry on.They could have easily lead a baby to believe everything was alright but instead you try and guilt them out while they are having a hard time. Hye-sung's reaction could easily have been a lot worse with the state of mind he is in now and the behaviour and blaming of people around him.

    Feh March 5, 2021 6:15 am
    yeah. but instead of turning his back on byul and making him devastated he could have explained that he needed to be alone or something that wouldn't make the situation worse. I don't think parents should be th... kimisama

    But he literally said that he wanted to be alone. Byul would never understand why he wants to be alone because he's still a kid. How would you deal with a situation wherein you're sending your kids off to school, but they're crying for you because they want to be with you? Take them back? When children grow older, they'll slowly understand their parents' circumstances.

    Peachesyummyc00chiejuice March 5, 2021 6:47 am
    yeah. but instead of turning his back on byul and making him devastated he could have explained that he needed to be alone or something that wouldn't make the situation worse. I don't think parents should be th... kimisama

    He just faced his abusive father for years he need time to rest he ain't going no where he will spend time with byul soon

    kimisama March 5, 2021 10:12 am
    But he literally said that he wanted to be alone. Byul would never understand why he wants to be alone because he's still a kid. How would you deal with a situation wherein you're sending your kids off to schoo... Feh

    hmm.. yeah I kinda see your point

    kimisama March 5, 2021 10:15 am
    Hye-sung said "I'm sorry" for not being able to play with him.Dojin and haesoo are the ones you should be getting angry at if you really want somone to be angry on.They could have easily lead a baby to believe ... Moemoekyun

    yeah, you're right. I still wished he acted differently but you're right at least he said sorry and it could have been a lot worse.

    kimisama March 5, 2021 10:17 am

    thanks everyone for explaining your point of view!

    Feh March 5, 2021 7:10 pm
    thanks everyone for explaining your point of view! kimisama

    Thanks for explaining yours. I understand why people are upset, but people have their moments of weaknesses too. We should allow that as long they're not going overboard. And I mean like resorting to hitting and insulting those around them.