EXACTLY !!
I think you are looking only from the perspective of the UKE, yes he can be a submissive pervert etc. BUT the older brother does not do it like kinking, that is not a scene game... he is really discounting frustration in the UKE and using sex as a way to hurt someone to feel better. it is not to satisfy the perverted UKE, but to stop the internal anger he has about himself. This dynamic that bothers some people and not the fetish itself.
gad damn i was not expecting a whole paragraph but facts LOL
There snow flakes ignore them lmao
please use his name, i used his name u cant tell me you already forgot it. he's not using it to hurt yeonwoo, saying you want to "mess someone up" and "make them cry" and then do it via a blowjob versus just punching him in the face or insulting him WITHOUT involving sex is very different connotations. you can feel that about someone you like and it isnt necessarily a violent or bad thing (if the person enjoys those things being done to them and alot of people do!)
i know what u are trying to say but also we have no evidence that taehwan is a gay man in denial. and yall continue to discount the fact that he might be bisexual as well. im not saying taehwan isnt/cant be gay but that there's a ton of reasons he can be angry at yeonwoo that dont spawn from (or only from) self loathing or homophobia. and i wish more people would consider that option. and i know what ur saying but alot of people are not even considering the fetish aspect. they are wholeheartedly discounting it as abuse. not "this scene feels icky to me cause i cant tell if taehwan is doing this with ill intent or not" i think its fair to say that taehwan isnt doing this with the intent to pleasure yeonwoo but i disagree that his ONLY intent is to hurt yeonwoo when there's plenty of ways to do that which do NOT involve making yeonwoo give him head. and thats how i feel about that.
again it's not about the fetish !!! the older brother (sorry I couldn't resist doing it again) doesn't like the UKE, he treated him with rubbish before, told him to disappear from his life, ignores him and threatens him... there is no lust, love or feelings and he is doing it to diminish / humiliate / belittle the UKE... if he is not gay, bi or has no problems with himself he at least hates the UKE. it's not about fetish but hate and violence that goes beyond the moments of sex
there is clearly lust from taehwan or he wouldnt do it? why would he go straight to "Suck my dick" and not just kick yeonwoo or call him a Piece of Shit and bounce? Also he dislikes yeonwoo for a legitimate reason. a person taehwan considered a friend assaulted him in his sleep. obv the healthy response wouldve been to talk to or even yell at yeonwoo at the time rather than hold a years long grudge but That's why he's cold to yeonwoo not cause he thinks yeonwoo is lesser than him in some way. its more complicated than that.
my interpretation and this can vary from person to person is that he has latent feelings for yeonwoo still or he wouldnt still feel so angry about something that happened a while ago. he would just ignore yeonwoo completely at worst rather than act out this way. He could've just walked out that door but yeonwoo said something that got under his skin and he also felt desire towards yeonwoo but cant rly process it right now so he impulsively said suck my dick (and then gave yeonwoo an out by saying "u don thave to w/e") which allows taehwan to maintain a sense of control and power during the act, but also...his thought process is very sexually motivated? i said it before "i want to mess him up/make him cry" isnt inherently a horrible thing to think and is often based in lust/desire etc. and to be clear, im not saying taehwan is an angel who cant be criticized or isnt being callous but I AM saying he's being criticized based on some very narrow reductive views on sex/desire/love etc and also doesnt reflect whats actually shown to us in the story. and also this read invalidates YEONWOO'S agency. (idc if you use an epithet instead of his name what annoys me is that u can only define him by his sexual position, maybe thats part of the problem here?) in pursuing this no strings relationship with taehwan (this isnt the start of it tho it is the catalyst). but taehwan's desires will become more clear in the chpt next week (tho imo they are present here, next week will make it even more obvious...i hope. some of yall are so dense it may still not be enough lol)
how you all gonna say they are in a "toxic" relationship when they arent even in any kind of relationship? lol. they arent even friends atm. giving a blow job to a guy you find hot isnt a relationship. just like having casual sex with someone isnt a relationship unless u decide to make into an arrangement where ur regular fuck buddies and even then its only exclusive if u first make an agreement that it is.
Like also i'm not going ot talk about how yall are going overboard on calling taehwan an asshole for what was frankly mild dirty talk but rather the way yall are erasing Yeonwoo's desires and feelings in order to victimize him. like its fine if Taehwan's persona or the way he was talking is offputting to you personally. thats ok! but it doesnt mean that yeonwoo is being abused or used or mistreated. Yeonwoo is a masochist! he has a degradation/humiliation kink! thats a legit kink and taehwan just saying to yeonwoo that he's horny/slutty/needy/perverted/dirty etc is about the mildest form of degrading language (for sex acts) that exists. the entire chpt we SEE yeonwoo's thoughts and he's not only thrilled he's enjoying this act. obviously its not great that he feels like he cant get as into it as he wants without like repulsing taehwan. the only problem here is that taehwan is allowing this to happen under the guise of embarassing yeonwoo not fully aware that yeonwoo likes that but he doesnt force or coerce yeonwoo into it. yeonwoo Wants it. whether you think yeonwoo should want or like this kind of sex is i guess a personal preference? but just cause YOU personally dont have this kink doesnt mean its abuse! let Yeonwoo have fun dammit! he doesnt need taehwan to say "i love and accept you" before sucking his dick. some people need alot of emotional support during sex and thats fine but alot of people Dont or in fact prefer the opposite. yall just open your minds a bit more or this series will just be unpleasant to you (and that's a shame cause their sex is genuinely hot and consensual and only mildly kinky so even baby kinksters can enjoy it!)