About your second question, I think he meant that if Jiwook resists what was happening, SE would get mad and proceed to do whatever he wants so Jiwwok better just let him get some relief and don't push him more otherwise they will have to fight and Jiwook will have to slap him more than 50 times (in comparison with the first kiss event). So basically, it was a kind of a threatening that I personally found pretty upsetting. Like: "Ok, let us jerk off here since we're both horny and don't resist me otherwise I won't control myself and I will literally take you by force!". Was it really necessary? Don't think so but Seungeo is so unpredictable and unstable that I was relieved he didn't lose it at that moment with his stupid violence...
After Seungeon says he feels stuffy down there and his pants fell like they are going to burst.
The conversation goes like this
JSE: I was holding it in well, but you made a mistake hyung. Why did you make me sleep at your house? If you hadn't pushed me away, I would have gone on my own.
(What he means is that if JiWook wasn't insisting on him going home(end of chap 19) he would've left on his own anyways. He was pent up already but was holding it in well(his urge to kiss and do something more to JiWook) and would take care of it on his own once he gets home but JiWook let him stay.)
MJW: Ah...!
MJW( inner thoughts): He must be crazy. What is he doing? It keeps touching/brushing down there(their crotchs).
JSE: If you don't let me release it here, I'll do what I really want to do... Than you are gonna slap me 50 more times. We both don't want that. Right?
("slap him 50 more times" - he is refering to what happened when he kissed him that first time(chap 11) and JiWook slapped him, now if he really does what he wants to do(probably have sex with him) JiWook would probably slap him 50 times more)
MJW: Heueub... (sound describing when breathing in air/gasp) (Seungeon pressed their chrotches together)
JSE: Answer me. You don't like that, do you?
MJW: Haah...!
MJW(inner thoughts): I don't want to fight again.
MJW: Uh huh yes... (sfx: Nod)
JSE: Ha, is that so? Hyung, I don't want to hurt you either. Then you have to listen to me carefully.
MJW: Yes...(sfx: Nod)
JSE: Take mine out and touch me. I'll touch you too.
Gosh sorry this is so long but I hope things are clearer now for you ^-^
I have read the ch21 translated chapter in mangaowl somehow the translation feels wrong and got me confused ): are we gonna get Better translation on mangago? or do you just copy each other work ? someone tell me