Help me out?

Cupidz March 2, 2021 6:23 pm

Okay so I’ve been questioning my sexuality, and I’ve been wandering if I’m bi gay or something. I’ll explain here: I would not mind dating a girl or a boy. I would not mind kissing and touching a boy or girl. I wouldn’t mind also dating somebody who is nonbinary or trans. All I really just care about is how they act and if they are a good person in the inside. So could you guys help me out?

Edit: Thank you guys for helping :) I think pansexual does describes me the best since I feel that personality is the most important thing!

Responses
    already_taken2000 March 2, 2021 6:09 pm

    You might be a pansexual or bisexua. Do these labels describe you?

    emmalila March 2, 2021 6:09 pm

    from my very limited knowledge of sexualities i would say pan maybe?
    from what i know thats liking everyone, and only being attracted to the person they are not their gender/appearance

    (someone please correct me if im wrong tho ;-;)

    NotVibrant March 2, 2021 6:10 pm

    Ah I would say you are pansexual then.

    frogswithoutfeet. March 2, 2021 6:10 pm

    sounds like you're pansexual. you get attracted to their personality rather than their looks right? of course, nobody can tell you what you are besides you, so maybe look into it more, but it definitely sounds like you're pan!

    Kamvell March 2, 2021 6:16 pm

    Pansexual here! To start off I gotta say, don't rush trying to find out your sexuality. These things are complex at times and can really confuse you so for now it's best to take things one step at a time. At first you may be interested in one thing but then another and that's okay, you don't always need a label for everything.

    Second, take your time when it comes to this. Maybe you can trying dating people to see if you can really build that connection and figure out if it's sexual attraction, romantic attraction, or maybe something else. As you said, you don't mind dating a girl or boy and don't mind if they are nonbinary or trans. You might be pansexual or bisexual if that is the case and if you feel comfortable with it, you could use one of those to label your sexuality for now and then later on you can change the label to something that is more specific to your sexuality. You could also simply use the label queer as it is an umbrella term for LGBTQ+.

    Third, don't be afraid to try new things. Just live your life as you would and along the way just try opening up to more things that can allow you to explore your sexuality and gender identity. Of course, do these safely. Don't go around simply hooking up or dating everyone because that sometimes can be dangerous (it can be dangerous for anyone, no matter the sexuality or race or whatever).

    If you have any other questions, don't hesitate to send me another question in the reply section.

    Cupidz March 2, 2021 6:24 pm
    You might be a pansexual or bisexua. Do these labels describe you? already_taken2000

    I found out that pansexual describes me best! Thank you

    Cupidz March 2, 2021 6:25 pm
    from my very limited knowledge of sexualities i would say pan maybe?from what i know thats liking everyone, and only being attracted to the person they are not their gender/appearance(someone please correct me ... emmalila

    I really think I’m pansexual then :D

    MR. BORED March 2, 2021 6:26 pm

    Well you might be Omni considering how you are Very aware of the Genders you might be dating, then Again the last sentence sound more like a Pansexual, so I'm not sure either

    Cupidz March 2, 2021 6:26 pm
    Pansexual here! To start off I gotta say, don't rush trying to find out your sexuality. These things are complex at times and can really confuse you so for now it's best to take things one step at a time. At fi... Kamvell

    Omg thank you for all of this you really helped me with this!

    Cupidz March 2, 2021 6:27 pm
    sounds like you're pansexual. you get attracted to their personality rather than their looks right? of course, nobody can tell you what you are besides you, so maybe look into it more, but it definitely sounds ... frogswithoutfeet.

    Yeah I do! Gender doesn’t really matter but personality does in my case :)

    Cupidz March 2, 2021 6:28 pm
    Well you might be Omni considering how you are Very aware of the Genders you might be dating, then Again the last sentence sound more like a Pansexual, so I'm not sure either MR. BORED

    I’m pretty sure I’m more on the pansexual side :) but thank you for commenting

    Kamvell March 2, 2021 6:35 pm
    Omg thank you for all of this you really helped me with this! Cupidz

    No problem, glad to help :)
    You can also use the Trevor Project ( https://www.thetrevorproject.org ) as a source to help. It's a place set up for LGBTQ+ and for those who are questioning. You can get more help there from professionals for free.

    PS: Someone else mentioned you might omnisexual meaning you romantically, emotionally, or sexually attracted to all types of genders and orientations. You could also be demisexual meaning you have to establish a connection with a person first before being able to fall for them (btw people can be demisexual and have another orientation such as gay or straight or lesbian, etc).