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It's because it comes from female creators, not to say that there aren't any who are able to write a positive lgbtq+ story, but it doesn't equal the BEST (realistic) results. Basically look for manga created by gay men, they're point of view is more trusted when it comes to realism for obvious reasons.
ahhhh I see, well http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_strange_joke/
is the perfect example of what you want
I'm kinda upset about how in BL comics, there's rarely consent.... And, idk it's more about "doing the deed". Like bro I just wanna find some cute lgbtq+ manga- anyways, STAN BOTTOMLESS SWAMP/VAMPIRE HEART!!!