What is this called again?

bonbonisblue February 28, 2021 9:45 pm

Toxic positivity? Delusional mindset? You're living in your fantasies sweety and you need to wake up

Responses
    The sleepless wanderer March 4, 2021 2:40 am

    Its not toxic, when you fall in love you'll want the person to be happy even if you are struggling. You are the one who should wake up from your ignorance.

    bonbonisblue March 4, 2021 8:49 am

    Darling, she's reincarnated into a living world that used to be a novel, and still picturing this man, after his fall, to be exactly the same as he was in the book

    The sleepless wanderer March 4, 2021 10:44 am
    Darling, she's reincarnated into a living world that used to be a novel, and still picturing this man, after his fall, to be exactly the same as he was in the book bonbonisblue

    Ml is just devastated, its not his true self. That's why fl is there to help ml find his true self again

    bonbonisblue March 4, 2021 5:05 pm

    Her intentions may be nice, but using your position of power and absolute refusal to leave, even when he clearly wants to rid of her, is morally wrong. Her idea of "I can fix him to go back to his happy self!" is also a toxic mindset not often addressed in relationships

    The sleepless wanderer March 5, 2021 5:38 am
    Her intentions may be nice, but using your position of power and absolute refusal to leave, even when he clearly wants to rid of her, is morally wrong. Her idea of "I can fix him to go back to his happy self!" ... bonbonisblue

    Okay, I'll understand your opinion. But for me its not toxic because her existence will obviously help the ml.

    Its just sad that people are biased and keep saying that they are sad and nobody cares about them but at the same time they also keep on rejecting people who try to help them.

    bonbonisblue March 5, 2021 6:48 am

    Thank you, to each their own. And yeah, it's definitely true that there's always those people out there. Mc is luckily stubborn enough where she will eventually get through to his heart, but sadly we know she will also get hurt in the process.

    EROS March 9, 2021 10:26 pm
    Thank you, to each their own. And yeah, it's definitely true that there's always those people out there. Mc is luckily stubborn enough where she will eventually get through to his heart, but sadly we know she w... bonbonisblue

    Isn’t love always like that though ? It’s not really all puppies and rainbows. Everyone gets hurt in the process of loving someone else.