dom ukes for the win

What makes you think he’s an “uke” gay sex is more than just a top and bottom especially with partners who enjoy bdsm. They’re just simple a dom and to assume someone is a bottom (which is steeped in heteronormativity) because they are smaller is kind of wack and wrong

i’m very sorry you took it that way. i was just trying to point out that i enjoy seeing dominant men in the relationship that are not super burly or masc, contrasting the heteronormativity we see in other comics of the "yaoi" genre, or even in "ecchi/smut" comics. i didn’t really make the assumption based off of how much more effeminate i perceived him to be than the other guy (whose name i forgot by now lol), more so off of his vibe. i’m sorry about how that might’ve come off as well, and i recognize the ignorance of that statement. i will choose my words more carefully next time, thank you for bringing that to my attention:)

Thanks for the clarification! I feel much better about it and I totally agree with you. I suggestion for referring to someone who is normally staked as an “uke” could be effeminate or fem :))