Exactly!!! The fact the conversation continued so calmly, had me like, say what?! There wasn't even a twinge of anger from getting punched out of nowhere for seemingly no reason. I was flabbergasted!
Exaaactly !!! He gets punched in the face and yet HES the one doing the comforting like come on have some self respect
Tbh that just shows understanding lol
It’s a strength to be forgiving, not a weakness. Anyone can get mad but not anyone can calmly take in the situation without putting their own interests and feelings as priority.
It’s like if your best friend went through some shit and just had a trauma reaction because of you and instead of trying to understand you make them feel even more guilty and in pain by throwing a stupid fit that you’ll regret coz you know it was dumb and your friend knows hitting is wrong (and it’s not in their character)
btw trauma is totally a reason to be understanding and getting that just shows maturity and emotional intelligence.
Self respect isn’t just in people who egoistically put their self-interest as priority but those who are mature enough to analyze and understand the current situation and set the priorities by taking everyone’s pain, feelings, and interest into account.
Btw if someone uses trauma as a way of abuse, then you can still calmly analyze the situation and end up with the good result and getting the fuck out of here and maybe flipping the bird at them.
That was NOT that type of situation.
Cha Siwon is waaaaaaaay to forgiving and do quickly my mans punched him in the face he didn’t get the least bit angry .... I get trauma but trauma doesn’t give you the right to abuse people and be an asshole just because you’re insecure ... like come dude