it is unhealthy and weird, ur fetishizing mlm
What fetishizing means ?
Well... I'm not in the same level as u but.... I can say I do become a perv myself... I'd like to go to time where I only watched and read shounen ai type stories or like Disney movies......
maybe take a break from reading yaoi, thinking about it occasionally is okay but your case is a little extreme
I just don't like how BL is taking all over my life and idk how to stop that. It been years now i cant even say i wanna go back to a time bc there is no other time.. i may fail in life if i keep being like this
It s not just reading yaoi also watching and reading BL stuffs
Bra, you should try to avoid going to this website for a while. Watch anime instead(๑•ㅂ•)و✧, so you could think of other stuff, or just watch some drama or movie. Wish you luck to not simp for anyone, cause once u simp for a character you'll be in great pain and happiness ╥﹏╥ Well you can read manga but not at this website, bcause you will be tempted to read bls manga or some djsΣ( ￣□￣||) As long as you bookmark and on the notif, you can catch up with the story. So spend less time reading manga. It's not healthy to think about manga or anything for 24/7. You need to spend some of your time thinking bout something else. Maybe your hobby, life or love live ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ . So yea, try to manage your time so that your life can be more healthy and good(๑•ㅂ•)و✧ There's lot of thing we can enjoy other than manga bfore we reincarnated(⊙…⊙ ) that's it from me, hope you enjoy(▰˘◡˘▰)
Hmmm, not the same like 24/7 but its kinda reflex to me now that I'm looking for BL after I woke up. Though, I never had wet dreams in my life (my dreams are full of fantasy, dragons, wars, fighting, surviving etc). So, idk they said that dreams is our subconsious desire so I don't think I'm that obsessed about Yaoi.
And...I'm asexual so I don't know about that, I only fantascized 2D characters. If you're in your teens then it's just a phase. Every year I always obtain new obsession, like kpop in my 7th grade, wattpad in my 8th grade, anime in my 9th grade, kdrama in my 10th grade, comics in my 11th grade, Yaoi and light novel in my 12th grade and now Japanese music...
Make (something) the object of sexual fetish.
Aww thank you for your answers i really needed them (づ￣ ³￣)づ i'm actually 22 so i dont think i m considered a teen and if you see my hobbies it s always related to BL.. like reading but only BL mangas and novels ( danmeis ) and watching but only BL stories from japan china thailand ect.. i like drawing portraits of my fav MC or ML .. i m extreme right ? It s really hard to go outside this circle for me.. idk i wish i can have a normal life like everyone..
As long as you don't think about it 24/7 then it's not something to worry bout.
You should try something new, maybe drawing, writing or something that pleasant that make you move a bit. And who cares bout others, just find someone who have the same passion and someone who accepting and go crazy with them ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ but you still need to think about your life, do something that makes you fell some sense of accomplishment, for example learn a new language, do some activities or try to draw manga or some fanfic since you really love it. You can use the skill for living. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ it's not that extreme, it's just unhealthy. For example, using your phone 24/7 is also unhealthy but people still do it. So cheer up and go listen some music that help lift your moodヾ(☆▽☆) no worries i myself keep thinking bout djs every time im free(⊙…⊙ )
Haha, I'm only 18 but there comes a time where I've been like that. I always feels like an addict person, I lack social life because of that. There was this moment in my life I thought "I can't live without this". And the more I become obsessed about something the more I drifted to society, no one understands me and my passion or I think I'm too excessive...like that.
So, yeah I'm addict with BL at the moment but when I think I can control my previous obsession now, it doesn't really bother me because I'm always likes this...
Maybe you would grown tired of it sooner or later, I mean, idk if it's just me but nothing stays unchanged....
Well after avoiding this website for 3 months, its worth it(〜￣△￣)〜 but instead my head was filled with haikyuu and others anime ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ well thats from me ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Cheer up and go watch utube like "a day in my life" or something that pleasant and helpful(づ￣ ³￣)づ muahh
Literally me right now. Staying in the table for 8 hours to do 4 assignment ╥﹏╥
You guys are so nice i wish i could just hang out with you outside and talk rn. I have group projects , assignments, upcoming tests and I'm just ignoring them burying myself deeply in the ground. Thank you for your replies. I was feeling dead now I'm okayy i know I need or haaave to take actions. (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Am i the only one who think about yaoi 24/7 ? It been years now i m a grown up and still do. I think this is not okey and unhealthy. I also feel like a living perv. What do you think ?