omg girl i feel the same way too.i agree with most of the things you said. it's so damn frustrating to read her be ignorant and hurt others in the process. it's like even though she says she looks at this world as real too she just hurts everyone like they don't have emotions and are fake novel characters. i honestly hate this troupe of avoiding main characters and then actually becoming involved with them . like if you wanna avoid the do so from the beginning and cut ties and have resolve to not involve yourself later but if you find inevitable to avoid them and are already involved as a major part of their life then take responsibility. like in "trash of the counts family" and "the reason raeliana ended up at the duke's mansion" and actually stand your ground. dan i's attitude is very wishy washy. i get she was supposed to be a mob character to make the fmc stand out so she doesn't look special but she's actually from another world now so does her personality have to be average? no, she's a different person now not some mob extra.
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Uh I wanna state my own opinion too as a person who really loves this manhwa, but yeah I agree that she is pretty unlikable to other people. I've read the novel for quite a long time but I can't say she actually gets a character development. She's not my favorite fl but I was still hooked by this manhwa so I'll still continue reading it. (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
Bruh... Honestly I'm starting to hate the fl I mean the real fl dan-i
Why tf is she so dense?
She's denser than pol from emperor and the female knight
Honestly, I hate dense people
(except for pol cuz she has an actual reason)
And like, she just casually disregards peoples feelings like its nothing
Not only one time but 2 TIMES
I can't take this anymore
Her density has nothing to do with her anxiety
She's simply dense
She's also quick to assume
Like wtf I thought she said she wouldn't think of this world as a novel but an actual world :/
She assumed that le ru da is a girl
Noone knows the truth but just don't assume and call him the wrong pronouns
If he appears as a man then call him the pronouns used for a man
Not a woman
Its annoying
I'm going to temporarily drop this I'm super annoyed
I'll binge read I guess....
I don't hate her but I hate her personality
Especially since I got to experience this
There was this one time I liked a boy in highschool
He was my childhood friend and I confessed to him and he took it off a a joke and told me 'stop joking its not funny' and then simply ignored it
Its like he was putting a clear line between us no he was putting a line
And that shattered my heart to pieces
And first of all dumb sherlock it wasn't supposed to be funny
And this girl is doing the same (dan-i)
I mean I don't understand why u insist in putting a line
If u know you're going to disappear at any moment why try and push them away when u already got involved its no use anymore
All that matters is that u got to create wonderful memories with them even if they don't exist anymore
I mean if you're going to disappear anyway why spend you're time trying to push them away rather than spending time with them so u won't regret anything after u returned?
It just doesn't make sense
I also wonder why are u scared for them to disappear just disregard that and enjoy the present
It isn't even happening yet and u keep fawning over it
And honestly if I was her I would tell them the whole truth and not be a coward
If they think I'm a madwoman then I won't regret anything since I was the one who decided to do that
Weak
And of they don't want to be my friend anymore than be it
No use fawning over it
There more than 5people in the planet yk?
Find more friends then easy peasy
The cause of your anxiety is purely because of u
So try to fix it yourself
If u can't do it than stfu
I honestly didn't want to share this to anyone since I might end up ruining the story for some people or actually I already did
But I was so stressed that no one even mentioned it
She's like a typical female lead
Not trying to use your brain and relying on other people
Yk.. What are u going to do if they actually disappear?
Who will u rely on
Tf so u gonna commit suicide
At least try to think of other possibilities instead of thinking of only one
I mean she hasn't even tried to think 'what if I don't dispear? '
Her will power is weak
She keeps thinking on the negative side
Yk i once got bitten by a dog and had to get hospitalized cuz my right leg got ripped apart
And I didn't get phobia of dogs since I knew that it was only one dog and not all dogs are like that
She doesn't try to fix her mistakes or rather she remains ignorant
I remember the chapter when she said 'ignorance is bliss'
Well honestly speaking I also believe in that
But it doesn't apply to everything smarty pants
If ur actually hurting someone physically or mentally don't even try to tell me
'Ignorance is bliss'
Like she's not the only one that gets hurts what about the other people in your surroundings?
Just gonna disregard them?
Noones even telling u to answer to there confession
The least u can do is to recognize there feelings
Honestly I would rather get rejected then get my feelings hurt.
It weighs great weight yk?
And if she wasn't isekaid* she wouldn't be anything special
I honestly respect the actual fl of the story (not dan-i)
I don't want to compare her but I ended up comparing her cuz she's not worth it
I'm not saying this cuz she's prettier and shit I'm saying this cuz she's more sensible and has more will power
Like
I completely understand why she was supposed to be and fl
She wasn't typical at all
She is great in martial arts and smart and she has a great personality and I completely understand why she has a harem of guys and why they fell for her
I'm not saying our fl (dan-i) should be like her
Smart and pretty but dan i.....
She's average
And she's good too
And her looks are average to
She's average
Meaning she has nothing special bout her so the least she could do is fix her personality
Like the actual fl (forgot her name)
Has enough willpower and is more tough thats a real strong fl
She doesn't break down so much like dan-i
She has a strong heart too
I don't understand why she has to be replaced by an isekaid person for no reason
This is actually so typical
Like
Isekaid person : tries to avoid ml and fl to not try and cause problems
Ml : ohhhh~ thats some interesting shit
Isekaid person : tries to avoid them more
Ml : oh u ain't going anywhere I want you, I need u and I've fallen for u so u need to take responsibility
Like sigh*
I mean I LOVE isekai stories but like does she have to be like this?
I have no problems reading typical stuff or things that go with a trend
But author
Pls try to make her better
Not telling u to make her perfect since no person is perfect and she's still human
Like just a bit
Cuz yk.. 90% OF THE STORY IS HER WANTING TO PUSH THEM AWAY AND STRESSING OVER ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
but I will understand if my comment gets 100+ dislikes since I'm sure someone someone will think and say
'If u don't like it then read something else'
Sorry pal doesn't work that way
There's no 'perfect' story out there
If u want me to get tf out give me good recommends
I have no reason to listen to u
I can just mute the notifications here if u try to spam me
AND... I JUST HAD TO SAY IT OKAY???
I've been stressing about this for a longggggggggggggggggg TIME
I just can't take it anymore ok???
Noones even trying to mention It or even acknowledge it
THEY ARE FEIGNING IGNORANCE
I JUST HAD TO
BYE
MY OPINION IS THIS DONT CARE IF U HATE IT
DO SOMETHING BOUT IT THEN SUCKER