andy and martin started out kinda interesting to me bc i always like a gay awakening story, but this is so annoying..... like im sorry but ”turns out he’s actually a masochist so he likes it” is NOT justification for sexual assault!!!! sadomasochism is something both parties have to agree to BEFOREHAND! and martin doesn’t even seem to care whether or not andy likes it, so it’s not as if him being into it actually matters.....
such a shame that yaoi authors think ”making someone realize they’re gay” is synonymous with ”assaulting them”.
also @ everyone saying that you’re a prude/ virgin for disliking this trope: i know this is fiction. i think the authors are allowed to write it. but it’s an annoying ass cliché and i dont find it romantic
andy and martin started out kinda interesting to me bc i always like a gay awakening story, but this is so annoying..... like im sorry but ”turns out he’s actually a masochist so he likes it” is NOT justification for sexual assault!!!! sadomasochism is something both parties have to agree to BEFOREHAND! and martin doesn’t even seem to care whether or not andy likes it, so it’s not as if him being into it actually matters.....
such a shame that yaoi authors think ”making someone realize they’re gay” is synonymous with ”assaulting them”.
also @ everyone saying that you’re a prude/ virgin for disliking this trope: i know this is fiction. i think the authors are allowed to write it. but it’s an annoying ass cliché and i dont find it romantic