you can both acknowledge that yahwi had an unfortunate upbringing and doesn't understand how to properly convey his emotions and also hold him responsible for the way he treated jooin, its not mutually exclusive
Yes!!! THIS!!! Like I know I can’t entirely blame him but all the wrongs he did collectively is something I hate him for right now. All I want is for him to final realized his mistakes and atone for them.
you can both acknowledge that yahwi had an unfortunate upbringing and doesn't understand how to properly convey his emotions and also hold him responsible for the way he treated jooin, its not mutually exclusive