Just my opinion

jixandra February 23, 2021 7:54 pm

A lot of people would hate me...but I prefer the cat boy to stay with Jooin. I'm on Yahwi's side because, yes, he's not one of the best people in the world, but he's really putting in a lot of effort with Jooin. he NEVER had love and affection, his parents died and his grandfather treated him like a robot since he was little, telling him things like "never show your feelings". Yahwi has been in love with Jooin since they were children, you can see it from how he remembers him perfectly in the smallest details, but what can he do? he knows absolutely nothing about feelings, he does not know what love is or what it is to receive from it (I mean true love), the only friends he has, exploit him for money and the girls who "love" him, do it only for the his beauty and his wealth. he doesn't know who to trust or what his feelings mean, so I honestly don't blame him. Jooin instead of leaving their conversations like this, only saying "figure it out for yourself" should talk to him, because Yawhi surely won't get there, because he has no idea what to do or feel in a love relationship. I hope that one day, Jooin would help him understand what love is, and that they will live happily together

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    Chentie February 23, 2021 8:03 pm

    Thats true, but on the other hand Jooin can‘t just let his heart break like he said, Yahwi has to start being better, even if it’s hard. But Joiin can only help him with it, he doesn’t have to do all the work.

    jixandra February 23, 2021 8:07 pm
    Thats true, but on the other hand Jooin can‘t just let his heart break like he said, Yahwi has to start being better, even if it’s hard. But Joiin can only help him with it, he doesn’t have to do all the ... Chentie

    Ofc, I think that Yahwi can be a better person, thanks to Jooin, as you can see, he didn't just let Jooin go, because he is really trying, in fact, Yahwi was becoming slowly a better person, thanks to him, so...i Just hope, they can be happy one day

    kay27 February 23, 2021 8:13 pm

    I wholeheartedly agree with you. Poor Yawhi can’t get there by himself. But it’s not anyone’s responsibility to help him get there. In real life, score getting into a relationship you must be fully ready. In a good mental space, because otherwise you hurt your partners. It’s not anyone’s responsibility to carry that sort of baggage. Yawhi needs professional help. And hopefully when he realizes the extent of his feelings, and is ready to open up about his childhood with Jooin, maybe then he can contact him to talk. But with zero expectations, just to lay everything flat on the table. Because he also can’t expect Jooin to wait for him forever.

    jixandra February 23, 2021 8:42 pm
    I wholeheartedly agree with you. Poor Yawhi can’t get there by himself. But it’s not anyone’s responsibility to help him get there. In real life, score getting into a relationship you must be fully ready... kay27

    I honestly think if both of them put in, they could solve this problem. Jooin should say things clearly, without always leaving everything unfinished, and Yahwi should first understand himself, maybe with the help of a psychologist, so that he can finally bring out his feelings. He has a lack of sentimentality and like I said, he doesn't even know what it's like to be loved by someone, so I just hope that in one way or another, he will finally be able to be himself. if you notice, when Yahwi in a chapter was with his grandfather, one of the men in the room, who knows how Yahwi was raised, says "I hope that one day he will meet someone who can change him" and Jooin, too, since they returned from vacation, was saying that Yahwi is finally treating him better. when, in public, he is cold with Jooin, he does not do it out of hatred, but because he is worried about him and does not want them to target him, in fact, when others tried to say bad things about Jooin, Yahwi immediately defended him , precisely because he is slowly trying to love someone for the first time in his life. I am not saying that Yahwi is an angel, but that they have to speak with each other, and when they will be ready, to be together.