YES THANK YOU!! OMG I've been trying to say this! I don't think Yahwi is an "bad person" he honetly really needs to develop emotionally. I know this becuase I sometimes can be a little like Yahwi... I'm not trying to be a bad person, I'm just a really objective person. So I think the same thing applys for Yahwi
I love this post... (=・ω・=)
i subconsciously liked this twice. Truly amazing analysis I wanted to add tho, like we all kno yahwi likes jooin too no? It is truly difficult for a couple to get over their incompatibility but they can through communication and hard work. Yahwi is obviously unaware of HOW to communicate well OR how to acc try to fix whatever cos as we all know, he doesn’t even kno what the problem is and it kinda pisses me off. I personally am more like jooin when it comes to relationships and people like yahwi piss me off; I dont even try to initiate relationships with them.
While I agree with you for the most part, I strongly believe he isn't really a good person either. He knows what consent is and he told Jooin off about consent when Jooin tried to kiss him a while after the had that night at the hotel, where he literally just fucked Jooin when Jooin wasn't even there mentally There's a between someone that isn't connected to their emotions and someone that isn't connected to their emotions AND a rapist ya know? That's just me lmao
I just meant to say while he is bad for the reasons you gave, he's also bad for this reason too**
man hes a horrible horrible person, his personality sucks :”) but as a character hes acc super complicated and interesting. The author is amazing for that
I don’t think this is just a simple matter of “they need to communicate their needs and boundaries.” To put it short, I think this is just a matter of incompatibility. Jooin is a very compassionate person and knows how to read a room. He’s emotionally complex and as a result reads between the lines of the actions of others, whereas Yahwi doesn’t consider the perspective of others. Albeit, he’s trying to conform to what Jooin wants but that’s it. He’s not trying to understand. He’s trying to adhere.
Now, that isn’t to say that Yahwi is a bad person for being unable to understand Jooin’s pov. I believe that “reading between the lines” just isn’t in his nature. He’s never had to do it so at this present moment he’s seemingly incapable of it.
Even so, the reason he IS a bad person is because his reasoning for even trying to conform to Jooin is all wrong. He’s still only doing all this for his own benefit without consideration for Jooin. The man is saying what he feels like he has to say and THATS Jooin’s problem. He doesn’t WANT Yahwi to say what he wants to hear. He wants transparency, honesty, and emotion. Things that present Yahwi seems incapable of. Like I said, it’s just incompatibility.
Wow I did nOT mean to write this much at 3am. I have school at 8 FUCK.