That person simply asked out of genuine shocked and i see nothing that counts as disrespectful from that very question. Some people may not pay attention to it for reasons we dont know and some may not know it at all. To me that was at least a dub-con as well. And even if someone appears disrespectful to you, replying with courtesy is much better than not and the other person might not even have the intention to sound disrespectful or whatsoever that is rude. No one truly deserves the sarcastic or crude remarks on things they may not know and why would you choose to be spiteful when you can answer it in a calm manner? was what i was trying to say.
not the question itself but the way it was asked is disrespectful and literally proves that for yaoists rape is just another not-so-good part of the story when it should be absolutely reprobate. it's laughable that you point out my way of responding in this situation and shows excaxtly what i've already said before.
i can't believe what i read. "at least a dub-con"? are you serious? "i can't do this", "it's very uncomfortable", "hurry up, get out", "i hate it, it hurts, let stop here", "finally it ended" and you call it a dub-on? disgusting. feeling pleasure from rape is a phycical reaction that sometimes happen and doesn't make it any less rapey
I never said its not a rape or it being a dub-con is less rapey. The uke himself was fighting against the person on the inside(like the two side of a coin)+the story was short obviously we dont know what would happen in the future. I may and may not be wrong, never said anything to prove it as something factual either. Ever heard of how different people interpret the story in a different way and how the story ending may change the more you read it?
Anywho, this is not what my main point was. My main point was that he had apologized even and stated his reasons. Whatever else regarding his conscience or moral should not be of your concern and your only main priority is to treat everyone with equal respect. He wasnt being disrespectful and telling a person 'disgusting' just by mere few simple used words is rude itself.
Also being kind despite the 'fire' or clashing opinions is not that hard and dont get me wrong as i was just sharing the advice that someone gave me to others as well. Theres also a saying to be the peace you want to see in the world. You neednt need to understand my interpretations(or others) on the story but i hope you do understand why i originally came here.
the first story was disgusting