Sure age is a factor. But you are reducing people into purely just their ages.
I am looking at him as a person and her as a person first and foremost and yeah, I actually do not care if they got together of not.
Lol what? I haven't said anything about who's allowed to date who at what time. I do not care if a 20 year old and 30 year old want to date. You are the one making up all these rules, you were the one implying it wasn't okay lol.
This is just a whole lot of circular logic at this point.
Maybe you changed a lot between 16 and 17 but not everyone does.
Everyone is different so trying to come up with all these set rules that everyone must abide to doesn't work.
Youve now added an additional rule that 16 and 18 year olds cant date lol, what else is there? Might as well just list everything down while you're at it kek
Basically what Im getting from you is that it's wrong because it's wrong. And me not having to same opinion as you is wrong because you are right lmao. This is circular logic at its finest
Yeah so base on your logic, pedophilia is fine?
Im not reducing anyone by their age, i literally dont give a f about who anyone dates, its just the fact that an adult should not take advantage of young person. You keep going on about social stigma and ppl reducing him to his age etc. And the fact taht he could pass on as a college student.
You were the one who implied that dating someone in your 20z with a person who's in their 30s with such a disgusted tone, you are trying so hard so let it be acceptable, its not social stigma bruh, its just purely disgusting for a grown adult to take advantage of a young person, thats it
I could pass as a person in he 20s, but if a 28 yr old man were to find out about my age, he should be discouraged in pursuing a relationship with me just like the fl here.
If you think age shouldn't affect someone's relationship that much, then can you date a person who is in their deathbed a 99 yr old because of their personality? If they have all the personality you want in a significant other would you still do it? There is nothing wrong with age gap, its just that age plays a huge part, you can say yes to the question and i wouldn't give a f because you're old enough, and 21 is the legal age in Korea, so to speak, he is not even legal yet
You have so many jumps in logic that I am very confused how you thought Ive ever implied any of that. You are just putting words in my mouth at this point.
I go on about those things because it's whats happening lmao
Lmao you must not have read what I wrote because Ive never made any rules at all about 20 or 30 year olds. Go back and read it. Youre literally the one whose just said it once again that for some reason 20 year old and 30 year old is bad and disgusting but then you also said earlier that it's okay for a 22 year old and someone in their 30s to date. I was pointing that out and how your standards and rules don't make sense. You are coming up with these numbers of whats okay or not based off of pure feelings with no legitimate logical reasoning.
Jesus christ none of your examples make any sense. You're giving ridiculous examples of prepubescent kids or someone about to die; this is what a mean when I say that age is a factor. Ill tell you right now someone I would date is kind, mature, intelligent, thoughtful, someone who meshes well with me and I am attracted to.
Why is age such a big deal for yall as viewers? It's like first and foremost before age he's still himself. And as himself his maturity is definitely there, if he can pass off as a college student perfectly fine even after hanging out with him and getting to know him then at that point youre just discrimating against his age right? And being influenced by the negative social stigma ಠ‿ಠ