"cheating on your gender" This seems a little transphobic to me( ̄∇ ̄")

Rou February 20, 2021 2:10 pm

"cheating on your gender"
This seems a little transphobic to me( ̄∇ ̄")

Responses
    saturnus February 20, 2021 4:24 pm

    it’s not transphobic
    he’s trying to say that she shouldn’t have to pretend to be a guy for other’s sake

    Haesooya February 20, 2021 8:17 pm

    Nah,shes actually deceiving the ml. So what the friend said is right in that part.

    Rou February 20, 2021 10:02 pm
    it’s not transphobic he’s trying to say that she shouldn’t have to pretend to be a guy for other’s sake saturnus

    Yeh I know it wasn’t meant like that but the comment in general. If someone were to say to me that I am cheating on my gender, I’d be quite offended. Maybe it’s because I’m not fluent in English, but if someone were to say that in my language, it would come over offending.

    Rou February 20, 2021 10:12 pm
    Yeh I know it wasn’t meant like that but the comment in general. If someone were to say to me that I am cheating on my gender, I’d be quite offended. Maybe it’s because I’m not fluent in English, but if... Rou

    As someone who’s been struggling with my gender identity... but this is my opinion.

    saturnus February 21, 2021 2:30 am
    As someone who’s been struggling with my gender identity... but this is my opinion. Rou

    that is if it was directed to someone who is transgender, two completely different topics. the mc is doing this for work and money to supply for the family. it would’ve been different if it was used in a derogatory manner but it’s not

    Rou February 21, 2021 7:37 am
    that is if it was directed to someone who is transgender, two completely different topics. the mc is doing this for work and money to supply for the family. it would’ve been different if it was used in a dero... saturnus

    Look, I don’t want to make this a fight but I already said, you’re right about the comic part but I’m talking about how “cheating on your gender” is offensive in general. To make it clear, even though I don’t like this comparison. A white person wouldn’t be as offended when being called the n-word as a black person. Just because “only trans people get offended by this” doesn’t mean that it’s not wrong. So get the point that I was talking about the ml’s comment in general, not in that situation.

    fromzero February 21, 2021 10:08 am

    it’s not transphobic wtf

    saturnus February 21, 2021 11:41 pm
    Look, I don’t want to make this a fight but I already said, you’re right about the comic part but I’m talking about how “cheating on your gender” is offensive in general. To make it clear, even though... Rou

    why are you comparing the n word to this??? it doesn’t even relate to each other in any way??? and it’s not transphobic or rude in this situation.

    saturnus February 21, 2021 11:41 pm
    it’s not transphobic wtf fromzero

    THANK YOU

    Haesooya February 22, 2021 3:31 am
    that is if it was directed to someone who is transgender, two completely different topics. the mc is doing this for work and money to supply for the family. it would’ve been different if it was used in a dero... saturnus

    Youre completely right, i really hope ppl wont be using terms in wrong context cause it might stir up misunderstanding

    nightwave February 22, 2021 5:53 am

    God what a bunch of CISsies. Go on, keep on telling a gender non-conforming person how to feel.

    saturnus February 22, 2021 6:12 am
    Youre completely right, i really hope ppl wont be using terms in wrong context cause it might stir up misunderstanding Haesooya

    thank you. people need to understand that they don’t need to relate to other topics and need to read into the situation a bit more.