
People are allowed to have hobbies geez! Just focus on your relationship and marry the guy...he's the one who matters, not his mom...and the fact that his dad got him out of the room and his mom isolated you to say those things also mean that they can't control their son and are trying to break you without his knowledge...ignore them. Be extra loving to your bf and let them choke on their judgemental asses.

OK so I'll tell you something. One of my relatives got married to a person who their family didn't approve of. And years later the boy said that he regretted marrying her coz his parents (who didn't approve) broke ties with him. You should talk things out with your boyfriend. Whether he's fine with it or not. If he's not and still wants to marry you then you should wait for his parents to be used to you, your hobbies and stuff.
I don't mean to say any negative stuff but just don't want you to make wrong decisions.
I hope that I don't hurt you. I'm worried for you as a human.
Hope this helps!

Umm seriously, once you're married to her son and if they see that you take good care of him and that he's happy with you they should come around, don't worry... There are plenty of parents (and especially mother in laws) who have trouble accepting that their sons are getting married and who disapprove of the "girlfriend" for no apparent reason. Don't be shaken, you and your bf will become a family of your own and if you ever have kids, that family will take it's own roots, it's their decision whether to join you or keep their distance. In any case, it's not up to YOU to make sacrifices to please them, you don't owe them a thing. Keep your head high and be confident in yourself.

Go ahead and tell him. Things like this are the decisions that should be thought through so that you don't regret it. If you tell him what's happened and he doesn't believe you then argue with him. But it in a calm and collected way. If he wants proof then next time ask him to come in the room when his mother is there and talks shit about you. Or you can record it.
If he isn't understanding then we'll think of what to do. We're (people on mangago who wanna answer) here to help you. We'll suggest what you can do. Remember, communication is the key.

And you aren't incompetent. It's just that his mother couldn't see your good side, your potential and your character. She's not thinking of you but only judging you based on your hobbies. She isn't understanding enough.
So cheer up. Keep a smile on your face. Talk to your friends, family . Try to forget about your issues and struggles and do not be depressed. Do not stay alone as it increases depression more.
I always think what happen in drama won't happen in reality,but i guess reality is harsh,today my boyfriend take me to meet his parents,bcause we plan to marry next year, first they are really nice too nice to me ,then his father ask my boyfriend to go with him doing some work or what ever ,,then okayy,,and just my boyfriend leave ,,my soon to be mother in law distance herself from me and say,,you should break up with my son when i ask you nicely,,wtf,,and i ask why,,then she tell me,,i saw your room when my son took a selfie ,,she said ,,a nutjob like you who like cartoon and read comic all day should leave my hardworking son, I don't want you to be my daughter in-law ,,you don't deserve with my son,, I'll be like what the hell just because i watch anime and read manga,,just that,,ughhh
Im sorry if posted this,,i just wanted to realeased this pent up feeling,,,im sorry