The problem is not being rough or soft, the problem is that this wasn’t consensual. It was sexual harassment. He forced him to it and that’s why people are pushed. Consent exists, as long as u not in like bdsm relationship with safe word, no and stop mean STOP AND NO. That’s the issue.
yes yes consent is sexy
but like almost every bl has this trope or it’s it just me
ughh idk and in the end they end up together even if one of them forced themselves on the other
and the creators just make it seem meaningless and like the other party enjoyed it
oh and also like I expected this to happen for the 2nd couple like he is gonna force himself of the other guy cause they said he’s straight
lol Idk where I’m going with thissss
Yeah and that’s exactly the problem with Yaoi. It romanticizes, normalizes and sexualizes rape and that’s fucked up. But I think the bigger problem is people thinking it’s actually okay, cute or sexy. Also reason why I dropped most of BL stories and stopped reading it besides the ones I already started. But just cause those stories do it doesn’t mean it’s or should be acceptable
yeah it’s sooo annoying like most of the bls start with force ugh
i don’t think anyone really thinks it’s acceptable but like when like younger ppl read all of it I just hope they don’t think it’s right
Spahhhhhh nsjsjsk
Problem is people do think it’s acceptable. They take it as a consent (tho there is none) and just rough sex and not rape. They don’t only think it’s okay they sexualize it and make comments like “YES GET THIS DICK”, “SO HOT AND STEAMY”, “YES SHOW HIM WHOS BOSS” etc. so
ugh if you don’t like the second couple just don’t read about them
Like everyone has different prefs some like hard some soft and shit n like morejdjjd
but yeah it just gets annoying when almost all the comments are about how they dislike the second couple and it’s just annoying