
I get what you are saying, I think, when you are curious or discovering that you like bdsm, there is a lot to learning and normally people do it little by little... for me was like that too, but when you actually plan on do it with someone, plan on making it real... you wanna know what you are getting into or at least wanna learn something to dont embarassing yourself or to make sure the other will like it. He already had plays and to think he learned from the guy about other terms but never searched? I mean, even to do good, learn or to understand what is a M and why the guy said he was it... as a D/S i never saw anyone that clueless/ps: sorry about my english, hope its ok to read :3
ok....but for a grown man dont even search it on the internet before have a master and do all this things..... or even before it started.... i know its fictional, but its so.......far from rl....this is getting too fictional(?) for me. maybe i will drop it.