I agree since she was reincarnated or whatever the mom has been extremely biased towards Ashley since she’s Cinderella. Although to the Mom POV all the girls are on equal footing you can say since she didn’t birth or adopt but inherited them from OG mom. However it is not fair to her actual children who don’t know what is going with their OG mom. I find it beautiful that she’s is being inclusive but it’s at the expense of neglecting/putting the biological daughters on the back burner
Right? Although i am not addopted and don't personaly know anyone who is, so I am in NO way saying that i know what it is like, i know that in the perfect world an adopted kid is as much of your child as your biological, so the adopted girl should NOT be neglected, but at the same time it doasn't mean that cindarella deserves so much spesial treatment in expence of the other sisters. I understand that for a mother, who is just thrown in another world it might be extreamly hard, but i hope that as the story grows, that these problems will be adressed. Let's just hope for the best...
I’m so glad I’m not the only one who has been feeling this way. I hope the bio-daughters have a heart to heart with the mom very soon bc we’ve seen the major side eye they’ve been giving the last few chapters. Also I feel she need to spend more time individually with each child and give attention equally in a group with her kids. So far most of her dialogue with the bio-daughters are in group settings while Ashley has had several one on one’s with her. Plus Thank You for sharing your truth to me!!!
Right... That is also reall valid. I didn't really think that part trough, but the doghters don't know that. From my own past i know how dameging it is to be left out even semmengly by your primary caregivers, so for me this whole time i almost lived through the doughters perspectives and that might also cloud my jujment... Thank you for this vuepoint. The mother is trying her best and cant be perfect- noboady is. Lets just hope they all get their own "happy endings" and hope that this part of their life doasn't ruin their family bonds an mental health.
Oh, agreed. She's not aware of how it's coming off, but she definitely loves them all equally. I don't think it's a bias so much as her trying to protect them from a bad outcome. I mean, she may not be the original mother, but she has memories of raising them from childhood. There's no way she doesn't love them with all her heart. Hopefully she'll realize how it's coming off to the other girls.
True. The basis of any healthy releationship is comunication. Whithout it there will alvays be someone who gets hurt if not everyboady involved. After you commented i read the comment you mentioned and agreed to many of their points. Lets just hope that they talk, not just stue in their own emotions
I agree with the comments about her trying to prevent a bad outcome and her obliviousness for how it’s coming across . I just feel her background knowing the Cinderella plot (and rightfully so in most cases) is creating tension amongst the girls. I do think she loves them dearly but to me I feel she should take accountability for why she has been focusing on Ashley as of late then explain to her daughters that she loves them all equally. Whether they are blood or by law. Hopefully their communication improves soon cuz it’ll be more harm later on.
Now it almost seems like a bad mother to her children. I know that the jungest have more trobles with her mental health, but while she is just as much of a daughter to her, it means there are two other girls that might feel like they are slowly losing their mother. They are all real daughters, but that means that they all deserve the same or at least similar levels of attention. sorry for the rant...