Before i forgot, i wish to point that an author can always write what they want and yes i agree with your point that ignoring every other problem people are facing is irresponsible so an alternative we readers can take is to see the story synopsis or the commentary section. The author can also put up a warning as a thoughtful way to present their work.
Truth to be told, im an androsexual whos attracted to masculinity and i ended up falling for the beauty of the story in the end despite the smutty cover or not(this happened almost everytime) so i also find it invading and mindless when you questioned and say how funny it was as if im a person of bad influences.
The people i hang out or grew up with/my surrounding does not and should not concern you or any other people but having the benefit of anonymonity allows me to explain this briefly whilst i hide it in real life. Ive been having depresson for almost 3-4 years, major and persistent depressive disorder. No its not clinical as im still under the care of my parents but in just few more years i wish to seek for professional help by myself. I have strong indication for adhd(not diagnosed obviously it was just an indication) and some more mental health problem; sudden anxiousness, overthinking, maladaptive daydreaming as well as difficulty with verbal expressions and suicidal. I only felt camaraderie instead of love from the relationship of my parent and my mother tried to kill herself several times. My friends are fine and recently i just got mental support from a caring teacher which is im grateful for. Im still trying to be a better person and i dont really mind either about what other people said despite the fact that it hurts from time to time. Ive developed the habit of not giving a damn f at all or sometimes, i give it too much care that i fell into a depressive period of time. Hope that explains as to why i behaved this way and i actually have no intention to justify how i act though. I just wanted to tell you that the way you talk had actually affected my mood and if i had the audacity to give you advice, that would be please do not probe/point other people on their personal life after judging their explanations. It appears as if youve invalidated them both in the sense of their arguments and life. For me, i see it as if you just questioned my whole being for existing this way and its not good to attack the speaker instead of his/her arguments in a debate or other similar circumstances.
Simply the fact that you can project your ideas onto little boys and girls, which is how men and women start out, is so fucking stupid. You really gonna look at a boy and go, “Ah yes he will make a fine tyrant with no emotion and only desire to have sex” like you really think that guys don’t want things? “Men have 1 lust and 9 mind” you are just delusional at this point. Have you even met a man? Most men run off entirely of what they want, not their fucking mind. What is it that you think women want?
Well at least with you ideology, all men you meet will only have 1 lust since any man who follows your ideals will be a sexist piece of shit misogynist and view you merely as a sex object. That’s the perfect man, isn’t it? You just need to meet more people.
You twisted my words again but thats fine its understandable since you did not view the world i see. But i never meant for it to be sexist in any way. This is just another reason why its hard for me to explain how i acted this or that way and how my beliefs are half of the build that i made. I do not wish to say that men cant be empathethic and women cant be a leader. They can yes they can but my beliefs just explained the brief nature of a man and a woman. NATURE i meant to say FROM THE BEGINNING. I have never ever said that will imply to me generalizing the typical standard of a man and a woman. I DID SAY THAT everyone can differ from their upbringing and lifestyle so your point is invalid.
Your reactions towards my ideology is rude. I do not understand why you're trying to point me wrong when youre just getting defensive. Im also defensive yet your choices of words are plain crude and sarcastic
Then you do not have to respect me as ive also considered you as someone who can never take on the differences between us. Youve just proved to me that youre just another stubborn and opinionated person that claims another person ideology as wrong and invalidating them by twisting the words they never put on their mouth. Being highly driven in standing for your argument is a positive point but theres simply no reason for you to be hateful/spiteful with your explanations and counters.
Im a muslim and the muslim men i knew are not the kind of men you just decribed. Not to sag that all of then are good but like i said, your point is invalid as you disregarded my point when i said that everyone may differ because of their upbringing. The 9 mind and 1 lust for men and 9 lust and 1 mind for women was not meant to degrade the gender as in the stereotypical man and woman. In fact my religion praises women way higher than men so again your point about mysoginist? Invalid. I myself am indecisive person so i believe that a little mysoginist and a little feminism is OKAY. Dont tell me to pick a struggle cause being indecisive is already my struggle. Little mysoginist meant that, men are supposed to protect women especially their mother or their wives. But that does not mean that women can be completely subdued and dependent on men. So this is where a little feminism is alright.
Anywho, if youre a fully grown adult and this is how an adult should behave then id rather not wish to be a fully grown adult. Youre setting a bad example of going straight to judge everything on your own(of course i did say that we see what we want to see and youre in the same case) without properly questioning me in a mannerly way. You just assumed my personality as someone whos sick and delusional and i thank you for doing so cause honey, that just proved how you even as a writer, lacked of human decency.
People tend to say how respect is earned and not given but for me, i tend to give people respect as the deserve it despite their upbringing but i still know my worth on how not to let other people judge me badly trample on my beliefs. So what do i do when respect is no longer served at the table? Typical me, i will withdraw with the last words; enjoy your day on being the ignorant you are.
i will block you though as i do not wish to communicate no more with 'an adult' like you. Maturity and good manner doesnt seem to be in your dictionary and i wish you will learn those from this. Thank you.
I SWEAR TO GOD SOME OF these people make it as if the perfect stories are the ones with perfect characters and indirectly or directly saying shits like "YOURE JUST JUSTIFYING IT AS A FICTION"
well nO SHIT SHERLOCK IT IS A FICTION and just because the other stories' characters are not as perfect as their ideal dream characters, make the story any less than another stories(with the so called perfect chars). Theres a reason why mistakes exists on this world and it is to make us humans; learn. BABE NO ONE IS PERFECT and (judging a character just because he behaved in an ill manner/badly/etc WHO is not even HUMAN with human values is RIDICULOUS). Im a writer and these ignorant bunch are such an insolent muffinhead and istg, DO NOT READ MY/THE STORY IF YOURE A STUBBORN OPINIONATED PERSON ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR IDEAL IMAGE.
thats not even constructive critism. It was just pure rude and disrespectful towards the author and other readers whom had learnt and enjoyed the story. sorry to say but if you cant even understand these basic logic and sense by disliking this, you need a better look at yourself. Have a good day.