Someone's growing up background isn't an excuse for their behavior. It can be an explanation for why they might behave in a certain why, but it doesn't make his emotional manipulation, guilt tripping and being a toxic person okay. If that's how he gonna be he needs therapy not a boyfriend that will then be sucked into a toxic relationship with him. Thats just my outlook on the situation.
Yes as I said its not an excuse to treat Jooin that way or anyone.
But just an opinion or what everything starts at home. We learn things first at home. Yes it is our chouce but if you're just a child and you learn or is taught things like "to feel no emotion" and we just heard it from his grandfather and not his parents or other person in his household or anywhere. We don't know if his grandfather did anything to him or to those people who got close to him.
I'm talking about Yahwi and some people hating and comparing Yahwi and Cain. NOT about Yahwi and Jooin in a relationship or their relationship.
There's a chapter in which his grandfather told him to feel no emotions. He was still a child back then imagine if you're told that as a child. I think due to this he can't really comprehend-? Or doesn't know what to call what he feels or something idk. Its not an excuse to treat Jooin that way but we got to take into consideration-? Or in mind why Yawhi is like that.
The people who hate or does not like Yawhi because they know his personality or messed up attitude and they keep comparing him to Cain cuz everyone know Cain is nice and all to Jooin unlike Yawhi but he some say Cain is a bit suspicious back then but think WHAT IF Cain did something bad to Jooin or made him sad or what.
You can't compare Cain and Yahwi they are waaaay different people as everyone can see. Yahwi grew up up like that because of the childhood environment he has like his grandfather being an ass to a child.
Cain as we can see he grew up in a good family but we can't say that for sure since we still do not know his story.
Just an opinion or theory. I think when Jooin was a kid maybe he and Cain met too like how Jooin and Yahwi met.