Why some people need this kind of validation?

Danae February 16, 2021 9:05 pm

I'm not a young reader of Yaoi anymore I don't have as much patience for minors reading this who are still lost in something they dislike without finding the exit door.
I have only one think in life I am sure of: no one is to be judged or humiliated or called gross or made feel less of person just because of their tolerance or taste or interpretation on their adult fiction.
If you read this chapter after chapter, helps creates all the hype and popularity this story gets with your disgust, then don't expect to be taken seriously if you have the gall to call the author, the story and the readers disgusting just because they disagree with your simplistic view of people who come from all forms of lives, experience and nationality converging to an already marginalized genre like Yaoi.
You need love in your life, you need find better form of validation if you really think that you are better than some another random in here just because they like a character like Seungho or they ship a fictional unrealistic couple like this.
I can't really phantom what goes on the head of someone who thinks this story is disgusting, think that the shippers or people who like this or that character is disgusting and still spend time of their day just to make a point to come here to say this, chapter after chapter after chapter... when it seems they could very well be enjoying something more pleasurable for them.
Imagine hanging a story you find disgusting just so you can feel pleasure by calling the readers 'gross'. I wish you freedom from this horrible disgusting story.

Responses
    Arayofsunshine February 16, 2021 9:17 pm

    Thank you for this, I’d gotten to a point I would read the chapters and never the comments afterwards cause i knew all the enjoyment I got from reading the chapter would be killed off by the very vocal nay sayers who never fail to come back week after week ughh

    dirt2003004 February 16, 2021 10:04 pm

    EXACTLY like its SO simple. If you don't like it then don't read it. Don't waste your time to go on here and be rude to people who ACTUALLY enjoy it. Like what do you even get out of this..?

    Zarathustra February 16, 2021 11:44 pm

    There must be a psychological reason for these kind of behavior.
    I mean, it's easy to understand people following a story because they like it or there is something that it's pleasurable. This behavior of hating a story, hating the audience, hating the author and still tagging along when the only joy left is to try put down the people who are enjoying is not normal.
    I suppose this also explain this recent surge of 'I dropped but I am still here' in the topics. You just know that they are following the story chapter after chapter and stalking the topic section waiting to jump on an comment that validates them.
    Even if they really don't read the chapters when it's available ( yeah, right), they are reading by proxy.... commenting the same shit they did a dozen times. Only this time they think they can get away with 'I dropped this long time ago but...'.
    Sure, dear. You dropped this like a obsessed stalker who keeps checking the ex insta and Facebook and keeps talking trash about her. But sure, you 'dropped it'. LOL