H E L P I AM READY TO THROW HANDS (I already did)

mkayy February 15, 2021 4:51 pm

Hello i have a question. Am i the right one in this situation because i found someone who just doesnt understand the things that people do that are into bl like predicting if he's his partner or whatnot ànd i kindly explained to him/her why we do dat and its only on fiction but then he just got really rude while i'm here ready to contradict his filthy words.

Need advice from older fujoshi! ヾ(☆▽☆)

Responses
    J_1200 February 15, 2021 4:53 pm

    I’d like to help but I’m a little confused what you meant. Can you clarify?

    nini February 15, 2021 4:55 pm

    if you kindly explained and the person got rude you are in the right, it's kind of a really well known fact that the first guy we see in a bl usually is the ML and if he isn't then he's possibly the SML but you quite literally know whose who-

    mkayy February 15, 2021 5:03 pm
    I’d like to help but I’m a little confused what you meant. Can you clarify? J_1200

    Well he/she said that it's weird that we imagine or fantazise two characters that they are a pair and is an underage guy but still its only in fiction and then i elaborate to her that that it is not entirely weird and i request to her that pla respect other's hobbies or whatever you migh call it. In summary to be open-minded but then out of nowhere she like- that argument about fiction is soo used create a new one, something like that and other things that she can say to contradict my explanation. We were just having fun, sad. ( ̄∇ ̄")

    mkayy February 15, 2021 5:05 pm
    if you kindly explained and the person got rude you are in the right, it's kind of a really well known fact that the first guy we see in a bl usually is the ML and if he isn't then he's possibly the SML but you... nini

    Thank you for the great advice! but the scenario was about two girls fantasizing two guys that they r a pair just for fun from a shounen story.

    J_1200 February 16, 2021 3:30 pm
    Well he/she said that it's weird that we imagine or fantazise two characters that they are a pair and is an underage guy but still its only in fiction and then i elaborate to her that that it is not entirely we... mkayy

    From what I gather it seems you shipped a noncanon couple. That by itself is not wrong, but you must always remember balance. Despite it being fiction, “shipping” can be taken to an unhealthy level and I understand why your friend was uncomfortable. Honestly I get uncomfortable when people ship underage people for obvious reasons. I think you need to reevaluate your relationship with queer couples because you sound like the path you are on may lead to a fetish/obsession with gay men. Remember to separate fiction from reality. BL is never how actual relationships are

    mkayy February 17, 2021 7:00 am
    From what I gather it seems you shipped a noncanon couple. That by itself is not wrong, but you must always remember balance. Despite it being fiction, “shipping” can be taken to an unhealthy level and I un... J_1200

    But thanks anyway!
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