it does make him somewhat a bad person since he took advantage to his current status even if that was unintentional. Look at it this way if you go out with someone multiple times knowing you like each other but it wasn't verbally disclosed and then suddenly the other party hooked up with someone. then wouldn't you be mad at your partner? and wasn't it so fucked up? Its tru that label is important in a relationship but it is not all that is in a relationship.
It shows that My comment keeps getting cut off sorry :( but anyways I feel like adding on to what I said, Param didn’t do something so horribly wrong that he needs to take years to repent for
i know that too thats why i was really disappointed to the current events in this manhua. Param needed more time to himself. He acknowledged his fault but theres no "concrete" development/change to him yet so it wouldn't be smart to go establish a broken relationship when him, himself is still learning.
Oh man i missed a lot for skipping. This breaks my heart ╥﹏╥
okay i may have exaggerated on that one but he needs to have a more healthy development first to go back and reestablish the relationship to Hwi. He did know he did something wrong but in Manhua he only did bare minimum and cope with it. at least in my opinion.
I know, but you can learn by trying to fix what’s broken. Instead of pushing himself away and regretting and thinking “what if” he’s acting on those “what if”. You learn how to be in a relationship by being in a relationship. And by being in that relationship, who also learn about yourself. And you may learn that you don’t like that person or that you really do like that person. Yeah, it’s a bit rushed, but I also think that they haven’t had their big talk yet and you have to get the characters at least on talking terms. So it is rushed and Param may needed more time, but for the next arc to begin- she had to bring them together
I can agree with that.
it really felt rushed. I really lost it on the last panel. i would have taken it better if they have just go on a regular date to pay the first date that param messed up but on the last panel of latest update it seems like it was insinuated that they might have a potential outdoor sex at a public restroom like man, give me a break!
Even if he did a bad thing that doesn’t make him a bad person tf... he didn’t sleep with mr han with the intention of hurting hwi I really don’t get what you’re all on about :/ they’re all adults they’re not teenagers or high schoolers he can sleep with whoever he wants if he isn’t in a relationship yet :/ he didn’t go out with hwi “multiple times” they were just friends with benefits but hwi happened to fall for him first and it took param a while to realize it and after sleeping with mr han he realized he just wanted him for his body and that the person he has feelings for is hwi
Oh boy, I'm scared for my HWi now, i like Param too. Emotions are messy and we humans make a lot of mistakes. Ill slap the shit out of Mr Han Σ( ￣□￣||)
my last reply only meant to negate ypur argument about the relationship. with label or none, there's still a relationship and there's something between them that go way beyond friendship. it wasn't literally disclosed in the manhua but based on their monologues you can imply that concept.
yup they are adult and they can fuck whoever they want given that they are not officially in a relationship but the main issue is not that. its the abstract variables in the relationship. and Param's knowledge about everything and did it. that itself is already wrong.
okay lets say it was all good and Param really indeed trying his best now. going to my main comment. i dont like how this manhua is going because:
A) Param did acknowledged he did something wrong but the manhua seemed rush for Param's development. He only understand he did something wrong but he already wanted to go with Hwi which is ideally he should be aiming for proper apology first.
B) at the last panel on the current update it seems like we were getting an outdoor sex from the two when they have to talk about things first. its just wasn't balanced compared to the earlier parts of this manhua.
i wasn't here to argue because at the end of the day its still the author's last say for this story.
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On that note, I'm glad HWi hid his physical reaction away and let's cross our fingers for a more emotional development and understanding in the next chapter. As much as we love them going at it, it feels rather dumb if they don't have a few more moments before jumping at it like bunnies. Imho (⌒▽⌒)
nah they never said they were in a relationship, Hwi asked to go on a date not date lol — you can go on multiple dates without it being wrong + although param should feel guilty in a way , he had a crush on mr han and i can’t blame him when he got manipulated into the sex
isn't manipulation occur when someone was conditioned and influenced to do something that they would most likely not do if they are not being manipulated? So i don't think we can fully rule it out as manipulation tho. It was consensual and Param chose to be have sex with Han.
you are right. he can date how many times he wants but it is all about the timing. He accepted someone's request to go on a date with a certain guy and then the day before the date he slept with someone. If thay happens to you, wouldn't you feel like shit too?
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so we are just gonna.... ignore everything and go back to rainbows and unicorns??? （￣へ￣）i dont like where this manhua is going... #－.－)