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Ah, I get it where you are coming from but that's just what people who are into bl do like predicting if they're that(uke or seme) or that(a switch). And it's ok to do that because it's only fictional and will not affect anyone but in real people, we don't do that and it is not acceptable, sadly some people just don't respect others' privacy.
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Yes, you're right about that but I meant that you're not being "open-minded" to people's hobbies or whatever you might call it like what you just said earlier, that predicting this and that is weird and it is only on FICTION so meaning it doesn't affect or offend anyone. So what am saying is just be respectful to other's beliefs or what they like to do but if it crossed over the line then it is understandable to say something bout that (and I'm not saying you did offend someone but give respect because sometimes when you said that "when you did something like this is weird" indirectly, they will not be able to express what they like freely.)
If you still don't get it pls understand it with more insight in other people's shoes.
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Open-minded- means having the ability to consider other perspectives and trying to be empathetic to other people, even when you disagree with them. And you're not even acting like that, you just said it's weird and didn't even try to be in other's shoes.
Pls understand the definition of a word thoroughly before you comment.
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Thank you for the long explanation! U r an angel(≧∀≦) Like u said I only assume things like that to fictional character as a hobby.. because when u read too many bl manga and novel, finding out who's the male lead(usually seme) became a habit.. especially in some novel where the seme usually introduced late, so u wanna confirm who's the male lead.. Anyways, this habit was engraved to my soul now, like...once a handsome character in manga appears, I would assume him to be a potential partner for the mc(ofc in bl way)...isn't this how doujinshi was born xD
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funny how you called me close minded yet not the ones who label characters seme or uke based on stereotypes and force them into a box. speaks volumes.
even more funny how you're saying "If you still don't get it pls understand it with more insight in other people's shoes." this works both ways.
and yes ik what the term open minded means. i'm very open minded thx. maybe you should try your own advice.
And the it's FiCtIoN argument is soo played out lmao. get new more material. it's not a coincidence that bl has all these stereotypes and the readers perpetuate them.
...and ofc you're a fujo. that's all i need to know. should have known since you have no problem with calling underage characters who aren't even in bl a seme.
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Pfft- did you really understand what I just said earlier? Respect people's beliefs and what they like to do and no you're not open-minded (your welcome, bitch/bastard) because of the words- no wrong term, all of the bullshit you just spouted from that disgusting mouth of yours. And now you're being rude, I was really patient and kindly explaining and elaborating things that you don't understand.
And funny too that you think I'm funny because I told you "If you still don't get it pls understand it with more insight in other people's shoes." when you're the one who still doesn't get it.
And what I've said about fiction is true tho? no one gets affected or maybe you're just really sensitive and weak huh maybe your brain is not developed to understand, sorry.
I said I understand why you don't like this bl stuff and because of that I'm elaborating things for you(and don't tell me that you didn't ask for it.) and know you're just being a dickhead.
And yes I'm a proud fujo because I support LQBTQ dummy. underage seriously? that's the reason? ITS FICTION.
Anyways, not worth talking to you since you don't have the same understanding as me and my gurly(Vale) you're hopeless.
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you have no real argument so you resort to insults and swearing? lmaooo. aww is baby having a temper tantrum? dummy and dick head? what, are you like 10 or something?
what's there to get? that fujos like to project and obsess over outdated stereotypes about gay men which btw is very close minded maybe you talk to your fellow fujos about being more open minded :)
if you seriously think no one gets effected by fiction, you're ignorant af.
read this and the replies and educate yourself: http://www.mangago.zone/thing/about/89346/
and just because it's FiCtIoN doesn't make it okay to romanticize things and perpetuate stereotypes. you don't get to be coddled just because you enjoy things. and ffs, stop acting like FiCtIoN can't be critiqued.
you called me close-minded, if anyone's sensitive and weak it's you.
"And yes I'm a proud fujo because I support LQBTQ dummy."
LMAO so you're one of those straight girls who say "i'm not homophobic i read bl uwu" you just keep telling on yourself.
for you: "For those of you who love to say, "Fiction doesn't affect the way you think," please go study psychology for a few years.
While it's not as blunt as "if you play violent videogames, you'll become a murderer" or "if you read stories about rape, you'll become a rapist," fiction does, in fact, influence your mind, only in small, subtle ways, that you won't even notice until it's too late. And some, not even then." one of the replies from the thread i linked.
go and enjoy reinforcing stereotypes with your bestie~~ tee hee
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Yea this person is probably a sensitive teenager that can't separate fiction from reality. Everyone have their own fantasy, and this thread is about MY fantasy. And it's harmless. Some shounen manga have a very disturbing story (sexual stuff) but I can read through it because i know it's just fiction. For example kemono jihen where there's an underage character that was forced to make babies with every woman in the village.. what im trying to say is, manga is an idea and a story that was just made up by humans mind, so it's just a fiction...but if the world is fine with manga having weird stuff, then why can't I have my own fantasy..and I didn't even make my fantasy into a manga or doujinshi.or a novel.....and someone said how some fiction affects other people, it is because it was made with the intention to make people realize bigger things right..as for yaoi...it was made based on a fujoshi fantasy with no real meaning, so I dont understand how it could affect others in a bad way. Especially when yaoi is like shoujo manga, it was always about love. Furthermore, I didn't even fantasize about sexual stuff.. i was just expressing my thoughts on how the elf look hot and seems like the perfect seme in every yaoi manga. As for expressing my thoughts on underage fictional character..... they're just A FICTIONAL CHARACTER.. not like i want to jump them i just ship them with another character..and I also like shipping straight relationship in shounen manga..as u know shounen manga usually have underage protagonist...and I dont see where's the problem in doing so.. I just hope they would end up together.
Anyways... let's just ignore this dude and move on hahaha. Made problems out of nothing ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I also have to finish a heap of assignments ╥﹏╥
The elf with brown-reddish hair and eye that keep staring at arthur in the first class is such a perfect seme (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ...I hope he will be an important character...plss i want to have more fantasy about him and Arthur fufufufu the way he's looking at Art is so...mmhmm ya know what i mean(▰˘◡˘▰)