http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ang_ang/
maybe something like this?
I personally woudnt recommend this manhwa for a "proper, non-abusive/tricked into it and respectful bdsm"
They didn't talk about what specifically is fine and what is not. (Emphasis on *specifically*). The only ground rule that was established was just "when i dont feel like doing it anymore, ill use the safeword". Even that ground rule is vague. At a separate time, the dom and sub should go EVERY detail related to bdsm. Normally, before any activity is done, they should discuss what aspects and subjects are totally good, negotiable, non-negotiable, boundaries, and limits.
Also, in bdsm, you just dont come up with rules on the spot while the play is on going. The sub was obviously a newbie on bdsm, and his dom should properly educate him about the things to be expected at a separate appointment. You just dont go slap the person and say "oops i forgot to tell you i can hurt you all i want for sexual pleasure, just say the safeword if you dont like it". Nope. The sub didn't even have a say on that.
And just because they're both enjoying it, doesn't automatically mean it's healthy ┐( ˘_˘)┌
If youre looking for healthy BDSM, then I highly recommend this
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/aporia/
Honestly, its the only healthy BDSM ive read so far ;<
Heres a list of BDSM, its a mix of proper and improper bdsm lol
BDSM
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/603799/
list is a collection of
• dom seme x sub uke
• dom uke x sub seme
• dominatrix
I highly recommend this!! Its the healthiest bdsm ive read so far
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/aporia/
Follow the list to be updated. And if you liked the mangas/manhwas I included, please do recommend. Enjoy~ (人 •ᴗ•)
And if you have questions about BDSM, ask Squibbles! She’s a bisexual dom with 10 years experience ;>
http://www.mangago.zone/home/people/181308/home/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/aporia/ I really recommend this one!
No its ok :) Youre not the only one who actually thinks that this manhwa has a proper and healthy bdsm. Its just sad to see the number of people who are not keen in seeing red flags. While, yes, this is just a fictional story and the portrayal of bdsm shouldnt be 100% accurate, but I believe that people who are digesting such content should be educated of what a proper and healthy bdsm is like :)
Are there any manga (gay or straight) about safe BDSM? Like proper, non-abusive/tricked into it and respectful bdsm.