i think what you just mentioned would have actually been a good reason if only they hadn’t been married, because if we look into marriage it shows that each loves one another and the ropes are tied. either way why would wanting to have a baby from your husband that you married be worse than the husband himself breaking the marriage and cheating on her? it would be a bad situation if he wasn’t married to her, which is why it isn’t that big of a deal.
He mentioned before he doesn't want kids just because they are married it doesn't make what she is doing less worse. She's trying to get pregnant for a selfish reason, having kids is selfish enough but doing it purely to get some creep off her back is stupid. Cheating may break hearts but what's she's doing is trash.
Everyone keeps going on about the husband cheating but she is doing something so much worse(also she pretty much cheated too). Everyone is ignoring the fact she's trying to get pregnant without his consent. It's considered rape for a man to remove condom without consent so same goes for women lying about being on birth control. That's scummier than anything anyone else has done but nooooo the husband cheats and that's a big deal. ( ̄へ ̄)