I think that too...i think ,as an introvert it's too hard for me to get to know of people especially I am too uncomfortable with boys...so I can't really compare them(I don't want tho) with the charechters in the story i read...thats why I don't have any problems with how fake theyre personality in yaoi stories...
And as a girl and bisexual (with too meny friends who are girls)I really can't stand the way how they behave in yuri mangas...like they are sooooo unrealistic to the point i drop of them...ugh...Idk why but I try read yuri and realise I definitely can't stand it...I think it's because my mind subconsciously compare them with the real life...and it make me anxious...
There is some nice yuri (GL) like tamen de gushi...she is still cute today...but I regretted that i end up with reading some toxic yuri....so yeah...even though I read yaoi yuri is still not y cup of tea...well its becose i am lacking in nice GL recommendation...
i'm a girl who's bisexual. i've had a few crushes on real life girls however when i don't read most yuri or hentai because i don't like the way the girls are portrayed(like how they're drawn and sometimes their personalities are too fake). but when i read yaoi there's no problem at all. am i the only one who's like this?