Your supposed to love your kid no matter what! don’t tell him he can’t do it because H...

There are somethings he wouldn't be able to do. He would definitely never be a star basketball player, or an F1 racer, or a military general. He certainly couldn't become a pilot, unless technology adapted to let him.

What she should have done, if she weren't in such a bad place herself, is to encourage his strengths, direct him towards goals he can achieve. I certainly don't think highly of parents who fill children with pipe dreams. Those that show that despite the challenges of the world, there is still a place for the child in it? That there's happiness waiting for them, and how to plan for their future? Those parents I admire.