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I think the message is "No need for conformity, you don't have to marry someone just to marry someone. Do what makes you happy"
Key is not the "charming prince", and she doesn't even end up with him (I may agree that he give off the "main lead" vibes though) None of the three girls were married at the end. It's a good message, but since it reflect reality it's still bittersweet.
OK here is the thing. I loved the story, it was so precious. So realistic. But then the ending happened and while I get the message... In the end it's still a story where the charming prince appears out of nowhere? I wanted the whole thing to have a good message while remaining realistic. And let's be honest, the fact that she looked like his dead wife was a real turn off. No way he didn't take a liking in her because she looked like her.