I've always hated how in bls one of them is given the mom role like dude y'all r both dad'...

Maybe he refer xi as mom since xi the kne who give birth to wowo.

I mean come on , it's fine if both men are NORMAL and none carried a kid in the his womb,then it goes without saying that they are both dads. But if we are talking about a gay couple where one can bear a child, it's fine if the one with the womb is considered the mom?? I don't find anything unjust here.

Okay ,let's forget about this confusing stuff. The one who has the egg is the mom and the the one who injects the sperm is the dad . Isn't that good ?

Naw I get it. You should always refer to your partner by the name or nickname they are most comfortable with. It's called being respectful.

Partners can call each other with any name they like,but what about the baby ? What would s/he call them ?

Just like real life, why not call them both dad? There's no shame or harm in it. Gays who adopt or do surrogacy go through this issue as well.

First, in in real life a man can't give birth (as of now). But in fictions such as Omegaverse, we can find male pregnancy. So the word "mother" is not that out of place .Let's forget mother as a sole female term ,but as a word that differentiates between a creature that can give birth and a creature that cant. And I never said there is any harm in anything.Call them whatever you want.These are all just some nouns anyway . Like you can call your mother "abc"and your dad 'efg". Who cares ?

Call your parents whatever you want,but make sure you address them differently ,cause they wouldn't know who you are calling when you need them .And if you call both your parents with the same name things are bound to get messy

Lol they could be daddy Mike and daddy Joe. Stop letting your thoughts be bound by male and female terms. If I adopted or had a surrogate with SO, that's what I'd do.