im in this situation right now, i think we are already in our 8th year ahaha.. and the sex part is kinda scary. IDK.. I don't have people to talk to about this huuhu
Ahhhhhhh I'm partly jealous, partly hopeful haha my messages are open here if you want to talk but I dont think scary should be the description. Sex can be fun if you strip the porny idea of it. Like it's honestly a learn along thing that's for connection- not to replace talking and time spent with each other.
Hahaha first time using msgs here hahaha feels refreshing talking to new people.. reading your comment kinda gives me a better perspective of my current situation.
lol, missed the last part of your msg. well... the part in the manga where the guy and girl is afraid to ask etc... yea... first few years, I just comes naturally but now, the topic of sex is kinda taboo to talk about hahaha and of course in-between we tried all of it hahhaa
yeah there relationship is wonderful but theres a lot of different love languages it can be physical or reassurance
Agreed. I like talking to people who are open and also not too sensitive because it's already difficult with social anxiety. And heck, I can kind of get that. I actually wished I had talked more honestly about it during the time I had a partner because we actually fell apart without properly telling each other what we liked or didnt like. Also its nerve wracking at best but I still say that's the comparison between what we think it is vs what it actually is. Waaaaaaahhhhh hahaha as long as you both are actively committing it remains a beautiful thing
Most definitely. And its encouraged that you know yours so that you share it and also pick up your partners if they dont know. They also change with stages of the relationship. I'm definitely physical touch, words of affirmation and quality time
same! but im moree of words of affirmation and physical touch for me, it doesn't seem like it'll change any time soon since its been like this for a while
Saaaaaaame haha. I just stay cautious because the words of affirmation gets me to fall real quick. Typical manga style and I sit there like "Wow... they had me at 'Are you ok?'" ╮(￣▽￣)╭
lmao same, i can't help it sometimes when a guy looks into my eyes and speaks sweetly my heart just melts ლ(´ڡ`ლ) btw, are you ok ;)?
I honestly wouldn't mind having a relationship like this . Like its odd how sex driven relationships are and all I want is that intimate commitment and loyalty to know that I and they can come home to. Also when you fight, you'd rather let it all out and still choose the other. I must travel to seek this illusion hahahaha!!! But this manga is beautiful