I feel you on that. I got 2 manhuas where the GL didn't get reborn or isekai but we're still like you know what you assholes don't deserve me *double bird salute*. I can't tell you how effing happy I was. I honestly can't think of a non-yaoi manga I'm following with a ML (that isn't a harem because sometimes you want junk food).
If you go to some of the tags, you can check out some pretty good ones with good leads. This is a list of some I just started
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/1234083/
Idk why and idk since when did I develop this habit but I really seem to avoid/hate(?) story with a male as a MC-
The only one I started recently was something called "The trash of something" with a male transmigrator.
I think bcuz most story with a male as MC always go with him ending up with a harem or making child every here & there..
So yeah I can't really find really good action or romance with a male MC that I can really appreciate