We do it because we love them. Honestly, not anyone can fulfill all of their sub/maso partner's desire. If you're uncomfortable with that, then it's just not for you. There are people who have weird kinds out there, far worse than slapping, spanking and choking. And there are people who can't bear that, guess you're one of them. It's totally normal and acceptable that you don't like it.
Lmao why are you so aggressive with that statement? This person was just saying how they didn’t enjoy bdsm (which is VERY COMMON). I don’t like it when people say “if you don’t like it, then don’t read it” because maybe they want to like it, but they just can’t or maybe they wanted to branch out and ended up not liking it. They were just voicing their opinion. Nothing wrong with that. You can disagree with it, but don’t be so harsh. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
Anyways, now that that was out of the way, if it makes you uncomfortable, feel free to drop it. BDSM is not everyone’s taste and to be honest, the whole harming thing makes be a bit uncomfy too. Not here for the spanking, just the sex LMAO. Also, most people (including me) are not okay with slapping people irl, so don’t feel like a wimp. Like I’ll slap someone when they’re being a bitch, but I’ll never slap someone that I care about (at least not hard). However, as long as it’s consensual, I’m totally fine with spanking/choking in sex. I’m not one to kink shame. (⌒▽⌒)
Oh, I didn't mean it to seem as I was complaining. I'm interested in seeing how the story ends up, but I might wait till it finishes. I just was reflecting in a way. I've read a bunch of stuff and unless rape is involved - I'm fine with just about everything. So, I guess it was me being surprised, that the last couple of chapters were a bit much for me. I'm not at all saying this because of any negative views to the story.
I guess I'm into tame BDSM. Being tied up and etc is fine - just the physical stuff makes me uncomfortable. So, sorry if my comment bothered anyone. Like I said, no judgement on people who are into it and even the story. I guess for once I wish there was more story and less sex. I never comment on anything - I was just trying to see if other had similar thoughts.
Thanks. I don't kink shame either. I was just doing some self reflection and I guess doing it in a comment section of a webtoon is a bad idea. I didn't even say anything bad about the comic itself...I've read similar stories, but this one just goes a step farther than I'm comfortable with, and I was a bit shocked over that myself. Especially, because reading and irl is different. But thank you for not making me feel awful for not wanting to slap my girlfriend. Oh, I'm a girl by the way (bisexual) and I'm just a little too vanilla I guess, for anything too crazy.
I know it's all consensual but I just don't think BDSM is for is me or my taste. I don't find her all bruised up and covered in bite marks sexy. I keep reading it but I just might stop following till its over.
On side note and probably too personal to share. I had a gf once who asked me to slap her - and I honestly told her I couldn't. I mean, spanking was a bit weird for me, but I did it because she liked it. But slapping a choking was a line I just couldn't cross. I told her, I'd probably cry if I slapped her. I just don't get off making someone I care about hurt. I don't hate/judge anyone who is into BDSM or anything like that. lol, I'm just a wimp who is a little too empathetic.