It really pisses me off how all the men treat Kate like an object. There’s nothing wrong...

AlyakThao January 31, 2021 7:35 pm

It really pisses me off how all the men treat Kate like an object. There’s nothing wrong with trying to protect someone you love but Kate is an adult too. She can make her own decisions. And her uncle is just giving me very bad vibes, he trying to shelter her like she’s a fucking child. If Kate wants to see a man, THEN SHE CAN. I’m sick of men trying to control everything. I can’t stand any of the men in this manhwa. If y’all stand up for them, then idk you aren’t seeing that this is normalized misogyny. Women aren’t always weak and in need of saving. Kate is correct ab Ian. He has no fucking right to control her and make the final decision, and he doesn’t even acknowledge that she is a witch.

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    YinMi February 1, 2021 2:34 am

    I think the uncle is trying to protect Kate. Kate can't protect herself right now ( she's doesn't even want to belive she's a witch , she hasn't awakened as well, so she won't protect herself. ) he is her godfather so it's understanding that he will try to protect her. There is an evil witch looking for her and also Ian is cursed ( explains why they keep calling him a monster) so he will also be dangerous ( from the view of the godfather). Kate may not see that Ian is dangerous probably because he also hasn't awaken yet , but her godfather does and that is why his trying to protect her. Your right about him treating her like a child , but I think I understand, they have been apart for a long time and his am elf, he cares about her and see her like his child. He wants to do all the things he couldn't do for her , and protect her.


    Sorry for my English.

    becca February 1, 2021 2:57 am

    I'm giving the uncle a pass because he is specifically trying to shelter her because of that which we saw that is trying to get her heart, so if she were to go outside, she would no longer be inside the barrier and would get killed. Although when it comes to Ian I hate him, he treats her like she's a 5-year-old and he is her father. He literally thinks she's an object and that he can push around, like no Mister she can make decisions for herself. she's grown.

    YinMi February 1, 2021 3:06 am
    I'm giving the uncle a pass because he is specifically trying to shelter her because of that which we saw that is trying to get her heart, so if she were to go outside, she would no longer be inside the barrier... becca

    I completely understand, but as someone who loves her so much and doesn't know how to love , I think its understandable that he treats her like that . He doesn't know what love is or how to treat his loved ones. He was never loved by either his mother or father ( of cause the wife of his father did give him love , but it was too late. He had already gotten used to not being loved or seeing love) so his love is over the top and he thinks what's he doing is correct. He wants to protect her and thinks limiting her from everything dangerous is right , not letting her have her choice which is wrong. Honestly I think they should sit down and have a talk , even Kate is in the wrong here. She can't protect herself and needs to know that Ian is simply trying to protect her , what's she is doing is half dangerous, but I understand her worries. I think both of them have misunderstood each other and both navie.

    becca February 1, 2021 7:30 am
    I completely understand, but as someone who loves her so much and doesn't know how to love , I think its understandable that he treats her like that . He doesn't know what love is or how to treat his loved one... YinMi

    completely agree but if man's loves her so much then how instead of bitching and being racist you actually do the stuff that counts, like being kind and genuinely trying to protect her as well as letting her make her own decisions in the process. like if you're so worried then how about instead of destroying all her shit and bossing her around you volunteer to help her so you have a chance to protect her. Although it's not completely his fault with all those fucked up standards of his he learned from being neglected and turning into a blunt ahole.

    AlyakThao February 1, 2021 8:54 am
    I completely understand, but as someone who loves her so much and doesn't know how to love , I think its understandable that he treats her like that . He doesn't know what love is or how to treat his loved one... YinMi

    Honestly I do understand your point here, but that doesn’t really excuse his actions. He still treats her like an object either way. It’s understandable that he doesn’t know how to properly show affection, but in no way should we think it’s okay from him to treat Kate like that. Yes the uncle is being protective, which I understand, but to block her from seeing Ian-and any man at that- is just abusing his power as a guardian(father figure??? Uncle? Idk) Kate is an adult, she can make her own decisions. It actually infuriates me that she thinks it’s okay for her uncle to shelter her like that. I wish she realized they don’t treat her with respect and should just ditch them all tbh.

    YinMi February 2, 2021 5:10 am
    completely agree but if man's loves her so much then how instead of bitching and being racist you actually do the stuff that counts, like being kind and genuinely trying to protect her as well as letting her ma... becca

    true, but as i said before he doesn't know how to express himself and of cause us as the viewers would get angry with him. he made some mistakes, but he himself doesn't know that , he thinks his doing something good, to protect her. also his scared to admit that kate is a witch , honestly they both seem to not want to admit it but at least kate is now stating to feel it.

    becca February 2, 2021 5:17 am
    true, but as i said before he doesn't know how to express himself and of cause us as the viewers would get angry with him. he made some mistakes, but he himself doesn't know that , he thinks his doing something... YinMi

    If he doesn't want to admit it then how come he kept pressuring her into believing she was a witch?

    YinMi February 2, 2021 5:18 am
    Honestly I do understand your point here, but that doesn’t really excuse his actions. He still treats her like an object either way. It’s understandable that he doesn’t know how to properly show affection... AlyakThao

    Of cause that doesn't excuse his action , but doesn't know that , he doesn't know that his doing something wrong. He himself thinks his doing something good, as I have stated because of his upbringing. His too overprotective simply because Kate is the first person his ever loved and doesn't know what do , he doesn't know if his overstepping Or not. As for the uncle the reason his not allowing her to see Ian is because his cursed and sees that his dangerous for him to be close to Kate. That's why he keeps calling him a monster. Of cause he doesn't know that Kate can help him with the curse . But her uncle is simply trying to protect her from Ian and the witch. His does spoil her too much but I think that's because it's been a long time since they have seen each other and Kate has been through a lot so his trying to be there for her . Also Kate is the one who has to make her uncle stop spoiling her like a child , otherwise he won't know if his over doing it. As for Ian , I think both Kate and Ian need to sort things out.