bad representation of real BDSM :<

Howl January 30, 2021 4:12 pm

bad representation of real BDSM :<

Responses
    nugget123 January 30, 2021 4:17 pm

    i agree! thankfully this is fiction, but i hope others realise this is not safe (and non-con yet).

    enjoy your fictional smut but stay safe in reality!

    Coolicefun January 30, 2021 4:48 pm

    Mmm I wonder why it’s fictional then and not real life?

    Howl January 30, 2021 4:57 pm
    i agree! thankfully this is fiction, but i hope others realise this is not safe (and non-con yet). enjoy your fictional smut but stay safe in reality! nugget123

    Exactly! It’s just a bit unfortunate bc lots of ppl get introduced to BDSM through fiction, so it’s a shame to see so many ppl irl consider BDSM to be as violent and toxic as it is portrayed in fiction :(

    Howl January 30, 2021 4:58 pm
    Mmm I wonder why it’s fictional then and not real life? Coolicefun

    No one said it was real life :) I know it’s fiction. But, as I said to the person above, given that so many people get introduced to the world of BDSM through fiction, it’d be nice to get some proper representation every now and then to avoid the pertaining stigma of violence and toxicity that the community gets.

    nugget123 January 30, 2021 5:20 pm
    No one said it was real life :) I know it’s fiction. But, as I said to the person above, given that so many people get introduced to the world of BDSM through fiction, it’d be nice to get some proper repres... Howl

    adding on to what @Howl said to @Coolicefun: i made the distinction between fictional and real life because all too often readers try out what they read and get themselves into unsafe situations that could otherwise be prevented. also because this isnt a good representation, there might be outlier consequences where someone might be stuck in an abusive relationship with the same elements of the story and they might think normalise it because they see it in a story. What I'm hoping my message could convey is that this story is fine to enjoy, but protect yourselves when trying out BDSM or playing with a partner!

    now, to reply to @Howl: i agree :( tbh portrayal of BDSM done properly and well is really fulfilling to read about too.