Ikr he doesn't like him anymore but he can't say it maybe he's still afraid that the ex would threaten to kill himself again. I hate it when people do that
, if you love me do say so if u don't say it it's not like I'll vanish ofc I'll get hurt but it's better than be hopefull and get nothing
I think those are different situations
I don’t know what happened in ur life
But I don’t think losing interest is equal to being hurt by ur partner
I think the purple hair dude was held down by his partner
And he got hurt many times cuz his partner wasn’t there for him in his bad and ugly days
Maybe his ex wasn’t intentionally doing it or maybe he is manipulative but that is very different from someone losing interest in u ( even tho I know it hurts and Iam sorry u had to go thro it like he could have told you from the first time he had this feeling )
yeah i get what you are saying, In Suh does seem manipulative, in my case it was like the dude went from really caring and loving to all of a sudden ignoring and cold and I had no idea why. Idk if you would know this feeling but it was very painful because you don't know what's going on and you don't know if you did anything wrong. Something like that but it's fine now.
true, In Suh shouldn't have threatened him with that but now he is asking if Yoo wants to break up or not and he is not answering.
Now that I think about it, i wonder why it was so painful for me. I think it was because I didn't know why he was acting cold and ignorant when he used to be caring, and I had to wonder if I had done anything wrong.
It's better to let go early then drag it on for a long time.
I am really sorry for u
It happened to me from my best friend or at least I thought she was my best friend not my lover
She suddenly hang out with some other ppl that I introduced them to her without telling me
She then cut me off and left my out
It hurts like crazy , till this day I have trust issues and I can’t make friends anymore
The worst thing is blaming urself even tho u don’t know why the did that
It hurts even more cuz the ppl that she left me for was actually the ppl I introduced to her not strange ppl
I kept blaming myself for making a big deal emotionally of this situation only recently that I started to accept this
It has been 3 years and I am still feeling left out all the time in all kind of social life , collage etc
So I really know the feeling
And I hope we both can use it for the better
Best of luck hope you find a better partner that can secure ur worries
sorry for the late reply, the situation in my country is not very good at the moment so I haven't come here for a while. Thank you for your understanding. Please don't blame yourself even though it seems like its our fault, it is not. I also hope you find someone that treats you in the best way possible. Best of luck to you, all the best
Okay so idk how much of a good guy In Suh is but I have been in a similar position with him. Like the guy i was seeing used to like me a lot but after some time he became cold and distant exactly like Yoo (purple haired).
I honestly didn't know what to do because everytime I asked him, he still said he loved me so ofc I held onto him. He wouldn't reply to my texts or text me like he used to, ignored my calls and messages and avoided talking to me when we met outside.
Only after a few months, he told me he lost interest in me and that he kinda got interested back in his previous crush.
That was the most painful months and I was so hurt I wasn't myself with everyone else. If only he had told me earlier that he didn't like me anymore I would have let him go but he didn't tell me like Yoo is doing right now.