I know just how the FL feels having lazy ass good for nothing money-grubbing siblings who want to make as much profit off their dead parents everything, but couldn't be bothered to help with showers or filling the med boxes or wiping asses, going to drs 12 times a month, hospital visits late nights and early mornings. I lived it for over a decade. My sibling barely bothered to be available to take me to a grocery store to feed said sick and dying parents much less came over and relieved the 24/7 caretaker to have a bit of a break. And then being accused and blamed for not doing enough when a parent finally reaches the end of their life. Yeah no fck that and fck them. Any child who acts like that in regards to family and parents' care when they become elderly disgusts me. Especially if they had decent parents who worked themselves to death to give their children decent lives. shitty parents are a different story. So in that sense I truly could relate to Nel. Everyone is all Nel was boring she was horrible blah blah blah. Being a caregiver in a negative setting can kill you on the inside. The girl was barely making it through the days and still grieving and her grief clouded her judgment. That is all that was and people who haven't experienced the agony of taking care of a person and watching them slowly die will never understand what the hell that does to you emotionally and mentally and physically.
I know just how the FL feels having lazy ass good for nothing money-grubbing siblings who want to make as much profit off their dead parents everything, but couldn't be bothered to help with showers or filling the med boxes or wiping asses, going to drs 12 times a month, hospital visits late nights and early mornings. I lived it for over a decade. My sibling barely bothered to be available to take me to a grocery store to feed said sick and dying parents much less came over and relieved the 24/7 caretaker to have a bit of a break. And then being accused and blamed for not doing enough when a parent finally reaches the end of their life. Yeah no fck that and fck them. Any child who acts like that in regards to family and parents' care when they become elderly disgusts me. Especially if they had decent parents who worked themselves to death to give their children decent lives. shitty parents are a different story. So in that sense I truly could relate to Nel. Everyone is all Nel was boring she was horrible blah blah blah. Being a caregiver in a negative setting can kill you on the inside. The girl was barely making it through the days and still grieving and her grief clouded her judgment. That is all that was and people who haven't experienced the agony of taking care of a person and watching them slowly die will never understand what the hell that does to you emotionally and mentally and physically.