Are we? Forgetting?

wait what fr??

I literally went all the back to chapter one to check cause I couldn’t remember that and I usually don’t forget things like that but yeah he did not RAPE him! Hwi is not that type of person he even apologized later on for threatening him in the beginning. They had CONSENSUAL Sex in chapter 16 (yes I went back to check).

Huh? Where? They had a mutual physical “get off” relationship lmao

um, no never? wtf are you talking about

I went back to check as well. I can’t say that it was or wasn’t for certain. His actions were consensual, however he did say “stop” and “pull out” and “don’t”. This is why I hate the language that is used in sex scenes in BL so much. Because it plays into noncon fetishes and it’s fucking gross.

Bruh sorry if I’m mixing personal stuff into this but I literally say those during a consensual sex especially if I feel too embarrassed or aroused lmao. It’s literally an impulse but you don’t mean it and Param’s inner monologue didn’t indicate that he hated it.

I get you, and what I was trying to convey is that this one really felt like the line was blurred. I usually stand very strongly against rape in any implication in manga/manhwa but my problem with this one is that just that; You can see yes, his inner monologue is showing he’s really enjoying it and he even tells Hwi that, BUT he does also say things like “don’t” “stop” and “pull out” which are clear indications of non consent and that’s non arguable imo. Again, this is why I have such a big problem with the language used in sex scenes in BL and even in SL and GL, noncon language is so so so common that people think it’s normal and okay when it’s really not. We should be teaching how to give clear and concise consent, not blur the lines further.

Hwi has shown multiple times though that he is clearly concerned about getting clear consent from param during sex so I think this one scene was an unfortunate fluke.

I get what you mean. Based on how hwi is as a person though he’s not that type is all I’m saying. But I do get confused sometimes about that. I wish they would use “wait” or something like that if it’s consensual instead of the others cause I really do be getting mixed signals.