This is getting kind of boring but I also can't stop reading it (Also, ppl be mentioning kinks~)

CoupleTherapist January 29, 2021 12:42 am

HERE'S A SEX AD

Now, I've seen quite a few little virgins here and there, or at least vanillas, who keep trying to say that Dojin going overboard is just a rape kink. Here's a thing, kinks aren't bad and are actually really fun in a relationship - IF THE COUPLE ESTABLISHES THAT THEY LIKE SAID KINK. In a BDSM relationship or any kind of relationship really, you all can't just stay silent and expect your lover to know what you like and what can traumatize you (which really doesn't take much sometimes). Let's say- you like to be forced into submission or want to be degraded - you have to inform your partner of that so they know what they can do (let's say- slap you or call you names) and what is crossing the line (could be drawing blood, spitting on you or choking).
DON'T GO AROUND SAYING THAT EVERYTHING SUS A COUPLE DOES IN A COMIC IS JUST A KINK/FETISH/A BDSM THING - that's bad representation for us, dear.


& CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG, but I don't remember Hyesung saying anywhere that he likes to be forcefully fucked (Even tho that is really hot sometimes). IM NOT SAYING THAT DOJIN IS THE BAD RAPIST GUY HERE, but in the contexts of kinks and such - he's just a bad bad Dom.
I feel like they could work & I can see them having some kinks, but for their relationship to work they really need that COMMUNICATION. Oh- & a couple therapist bc we all know both Hyesung AND Dojin have some issues and inner conflicts they have to fix.

Responses
    Carottes January 29, 2021 12:46 am

    I agree with the first part of what you said, the second part,well, I disagree a bit because to me its quite subjective, and depends on each one s POV.
    People keep forgetting that this is fiction and that's too bad.

    CoupleTherapist January 29, 2021 9:12 am
    I agree with the first part of what you said, the second part,well, I disagree a bit because to me its quite subjective, and depends on each one s POV. People keep forgetting that this is fiction and that's to... Carottes

    People are not forgetting that this is fiction, they just understand the harm this could cause to impressionable minds. The author can put out whatever they want - that's the beauty of art, but the fact still remains that this will be found by young individuals (especially on mangago bc it's deliciously easy to lie about your age on such sites). Those 'kids' who never had a relationship will most likely take this as an example for how a relationship should be.

    CoupleTherapist January 29, 2021 9:13 am
    People are not forgetting that this is fiction, they just understand the harm this could cause to impressionable minds. The author can put out whatever they want - that's the beauty of art, but the fact still r... CoupleTherapist

    Ridiculously ****

    Carottes January 29, 2021 10:48 am

    I agree for this story, i saw a lot of comments with pepole hating stories coz it contains rape, thats why i was saying people are forgetting this is fiction, its doesnt apply to real life morals, its still a yaoi, an omegaverse story, it's very animalistic with very jealous possessive alphas thinking they re above everyone else and omegas are just cumdumbsters for them, with this in mind, i really think young ones must never get inspiration from that for their future relationships.
    Even if its a good story they should just stop trying to project themselves in the stories and just take them as they are stories.
    I tend to ratiocinate so am happy to finally see someone with an opinion and valid arguments here ヾ(☆▽☆)

    CoupleTherapist January 29, 2021 12:38 pm
    I agree for this story, i saw a lot of comments with pepole hating stories coz it contains rape, thats why i was saying people are forgetting this is fiction, its doesnt apply to real life morals, its still a y... Carottes

    You're a smart fella! I totally agree with this too. The morals of the people in a story or a comic is up to the author as story telling shouldn't be completely restricted to lovey-dovey or goody two-shoes characters/themes (especially when everything takes place in different universes) - that's shit's kinda boring anyway ngl. But it's good to add disclaimers or have people clear things up in discussion for those who are too busy drooling over a pretty face and a six-pack.

    Carottes January 29, 2021 2:14 pm

    Am not that smart but thank you, and am sorry for my mediocre english it's my third language. Anyway I am glad there are some reader like you out there give me hope for my manga.

    CoupleTherapist January 29, 2021 2:18 pm
    Am not that smart but thank you, and am sorry for my mediocre english it's my third language. Anyway I am glad there are some reader like you out there give me hope for my manga. Carottes

    It's cool. English is not my native language as well &--- Your manga? You mean, you're working on a comic project yourself?

    Carottes January 29, 2021 2:51 pm

    Well yeah on my free time, its not for right now because its not ready yet its still in the development stage am still looking for help but i hope some day it gets published

    CoupleTherapist January 29, 2021 6:57 pm
    Well yeah on my free time, its not for right now because its not ready yet its still in the development stage am still looking for help but i hope some day it gets published Carottes

    Ayyy, pretty much same here. Tho I'm working on multiple projects (a few smaller ones to test the waters and a bigger one). What kind of comic will yours be?

    Carottes January 29, 2021 7:24 pm

    Actually i migh have 2 projects for now, I wanted to make a nekketsu and the other one I dunno am still hesitating between a shounen and a seinen.
    And you what kind of project are you working on ?